Women's Sexual Pleasure -- Apparently Still a Taboo

Dark Soul said:
Men can get by without women, not the other way around.
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I'm sure that every guy locked up in prison feels the exact same way.

We can all "get by" without the opposite sex, but who wants to? You guys enjoy our presence as much as we love yours. It's a beautiful thing.
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
I'm sure that every guy locked up in prison feels the exact same way.

We can all "get by" without the opposite sex, but who wants to? You guys enjoy our presence as much as we love yours. It's a beautiful thing.
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chicks that live where there is only right wing men arround
 
evince said:
chicks that live where there is only right wing men arround
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I dunno... I lived in Missouri for 55 years. Pretty much only RW guys around, yet I managed to find a couple who were sane good men. Oh, and not Reichwing.

Back to the point of the OP -- we are in the 21st century now. Why is female sexual enjoyment still a taboo??
 
Yeah I was just riffing jokewise.


if women can express joy about sex they can express disappointment

Always make note of the ones who find it scary that women can enjoy sex

they know what kind of reviews they would get
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
I dunno... I lived in Missouri for 55 years. Pretty much only RW guys around, yet I managed to find a couple who were sane good men. Oh, and not Reichwing.

Back to the point of the OP -- we are in the 21st century now. Why is female sexual enjoyment still a taboo??
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Why do right wing Republican women like a Orange pervert grab their vagina?
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
I'm sure that every guy locked up in prison feels the exact same way.

We can all "get by" without the opposite sex, but who wants to? You guys enjoy our presence as much as we love yours. It's a beautiful thing.
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I love women. Probably have more that I consider close friends than men. But you listed 9 reasons why women can't live without us. There are hundreds more.
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
I wonder if female orgasms outside of male-female intercourse frighten some men who fear that we won't need you guys if we can do it ourselves. If so, take heart. We need you, and for a lot more than that.

1. Who will take the scary spider and put her outside?
2. Who will haul the heavy loads of dirt for our gardens?
3. Who will pretend not to be sickened when we make a new dish you don't like?
4. Who will make sure our cars are always in top-notch running condition?
5. Who will lay on the gross and cold basement floor to fix the laundry room wash basin drain?
6. Who will mow the grass when it's a blazing 1M degrees outside?
7. Who will laugh at even our lamest jokes?
8. Who will put up with the jerks in our side of the family?
9. Who will put their strong arms around us at night so that we can sleep soundly, knowing that we are safe and well-loved?
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Still trying to figure out how they would demonstrate that robotic boy toy?
 
evince said:
Yeah I was just riffing jokewise.


if women can express joy about sex they can express disappointment

Always make note of the ones who find it scary that women can enjoy sex

they know what kind of reviews they would get
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its a double standard and it’s a holdover from the times before effective birth control where getting pregnant was a much greater risk. The pill changed everything. Women could enjoy sex as freely as men for once. Something a lot of men aren’t comfortable with.

But let’s not go to far into men bashing. I know a lot of men who absolutely adore their wives but are frustrated to the point of desperation because their wife has lost her libido and is no longer interested in sex and it’s not because their husband isn’t attentive, emotionally engaged, incompetent lovers or no longer attractive to them.

It’s been my experience that women often can’t enjoy sex at times as natural multi-taskers that they are they can’t seem to shut down their own internal chatter to be in the moment that is needed to be uninhibited that makes sex fun and meaningful.

So a few things I’ve learned that help your woman to shut down her internal chatter and to be in the moment and to improve her libido are;

Emotionally engage her. Master flirting, give her drama too. Women need emotional richness in their lives. Be mindful of their needs.

Encourage her to masturbate frequently. This applies to men too. The more you experience orgasms the more you learn to shut down the internal chatter the more pleasurable the experience becomes which causes a positive reinforcement loop that psychologically increases libido.

Romance her... women love acting out sexual fantasies.

Communicate to her. Tell her how emotionally important physical intamacy with her is to you.

If none of that works seek professional counseling. There could be medical or serious psychological problems that lower libido.
 
Mott the Hoople said:
its a double standard and it’s a holdover from the times before effective birth control where getting pregnant was a much greater risk. The pill changed everything. Women could enjoy sex as freely as men for once. Something a lot of men aren’t comfortable with.

But let’s not go to far into men bashing. I know a lot of men who absolutely adore their wives but are frustrated to the point of desperation because their wife has lost her libido and is no longer interested in sex and it’s not because their husband isn’t attentive, emotionally engaged, incompetent lovers or no longer attractive to them.

It’s been my experience that women often can’t enjoy sex at times as natural multi-taskers that they are they can’t seem to shut down their own internal chatter to be in the moment that is needed to be uninhibited that makes sex fun and meaningful.

So a few things I’ve learned that help your woman to shut down her internal chatter and to be in the moment and to improve her libido are;

Emotionally engage her. Master flirting, give her drama too. Women need emotional richness in their lives. Be mindful of their needs.

Encourage her to masturbate frequently. This applies to men too. The more you experience orgasms the more you learn to shut down the internal chatter the more pleasurable the experience becomes which causes a positive reinforcement loop that psychologically increases libido.

Romance her... women love acting out sexual fantasies.

Communicate to her. Tell her how emotionally important physical intamacy with her is to you.

If none of that works seek professional counseling. There could be medical or serious psychological problems that lower libido.
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Good advice. I might add meditation to your list. It teaches you to be in this moment and nowhere else. That can be translated to a lot of aspects of life -- a good meal, an interesting video/movie, and sexy times too.
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
Good advice. I might add meditation to your list. It teaches you to be in this moment and nowhere else. That can be translated to a lot of aspects of life -- a good meal, an interesting video/movie, and sexy times too.
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Relaxation techniques do help to stop the internal chatter and lower inhibitions whether it is meditation, a nice massage, a glass or two of wine, etc.
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
I dunno... I lived in Missouri for 55 years. Pretty much only RW guys around, yet I managed to find a couple who were sane good men. Oh, and not Reichwing.

Back to the point of the OP -- we are in the 21st century now. Why is female sexual enjoyment still a taboo??
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Social conditioning fueled by religious beliefs. It’s a Western thing, I don’t think the Asian cultures are as inhibited as we are.
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
Our Puritanical roots still haunt and inhibit us.
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it all stems from if a women likes sex you may end up spending your wealth and assets raising another mans child


its why they began mutilating girl children


trying to make sure there was NO PLESURE in sex for a woman


they wanted it to be a TASK she performed for her owner husband
 
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