Smart is very sexy. Communicative, especially about deep and/or sensitive subjects, because I am very emotional and can’t get onto the next thing until I feel heard and understood. Funny is imperative and can get most women naked way faster than tequila. My personal preference is a dry, sardonic, even sometimes, black humor, but humor preferences differ.
Once you come out of the virtual world, and bring looks into it, who knows who I would consider “hot”, but I would be very surprised if it didn’t pretty much fall along the lines of who I think is hot already. Looks really mean very little to me, and I know everyone says that, but it’s really true for me. Some of the best looking men I’ve known, I have found to be huge turnoffs, and vs versa. It’s really all about chemistry, and if all of the above is there, you’re three quarters of the way to that.
ahh chemistry...I couldn't agree with you more. Though I do have to say that in order for me to have chemistry with a guy I DO have to be physically attracted to him. Everything you said matters, but i'd be lying if i said looks didnt matter as well.
