Like I said your IDEAL of society was tried in a totalitarian Romania (the only place an ideal like yours can be tried) and failed miserably. Your ideal is ONLY suited for authoritarian or totalitarian regimes. I do not fault you for your beliefs, I only fault you for trying to implement what can ONLY be seen as a completely intrusive government control of reproduction. If you want to make Abortions go away, support programs that get people on birth control, that reward people for adopting children and that help poor people AFTER they have a child. The problem with MOST people who are on your side of the issue tell us god gave us the gift of a child and then out of the same side of their mouths tell us that they KNEW the consequences when they had sex. Child as gift and punishment.
As is typical, your argument points out faults which I have already addressed and negated.
In the first place, I fully support programs that reduce unplanned pregnancies. Some I think could be done better, but that does not mean I do not support them.
Ditto programs for helping the poor. Just because I think they could be done more efficiently, in a manner that helps people OUT of poverty instead of trapping them in poverty, does not mean I do not support helping the poor.
Second, your claims of adoption problems are full of holes. Romania had far more problems than just illegal abortion. The average waiting time for adoption in this country is over two years. That is why so many couples are turning to foreign sources. The problem of "unadoptable" children is the result of foster children and/or orphaned children who have significant and/or extreme emotional and behavior problems. Abortion has nothing to do with that.
And it is interesting how someone who supports the dehumanization of a class of humans can refer to totalitarians those who desire all humans be protected.
Third, only blind assholes can take the word "consequence" and claim it automatically means "punishment". I used the term "consequence" all the time when teaching my children about choices, and about dealing with every day life. One of those lessons was that consequences can be either positive (reward) or negative (punishment) - the difference being how they deal with it. I personally would never describe a pregnancy, unwanted or not, as a punishment. But then, I do not dehumanize unborn children so I can feel better about supporting the "right" to kill them.
Pregnancy IS a possible consequence of sexual activity. That is true whether birth control is used or not. Anyone who glosses over that little fact is part of the problem when it comes to dealing with unplanned pregnancy - and the resulting perceived need for legal abortion. It is NOT wrong for pro-life to point out that having sex leads to the potential (and all too often ACTUAL) consequence of pregnancy. Perhaps if our society were to actually learn that little fact, instead of giving it lip service while selling beer using sex, we'd have fewer problems over all, to include less problems with abortion, STDs, emotional difficulties of people who chose to enter sexual activity too soon, etc.
It is not wrong to point out consequences follow decisions in ANY matter, let alone the big (much bigger than modern liberals want to admit) decision to become sexually active. Nor is it wrong to point out that when a consequence comes about through choices made, there is one person to point to when it comes to assigning blame for the results of decisions. (That is another area modern liberalism has fallen well away from reality.)