What makes a man gay?

[Tinkerpeach]

Is it the act of having gay sex or being attracted to other men?

 

[AProudLefty]

Is it the act of having gay sex or being attracted to other men?

It's an orientation. Sex has nothing to do with it.

 

[Jarod]

Is it the act of having gay sex or being attracted to other men?

YOU!

 

[Tinkerpeach]

It's an orientation. Sex has nothing to do with it.

So if two guys are having sex you are saying they may not be gay?

 

[signalmankenneth]

So if two guys are having sex you are saying they may not be gay?

Bottom line, two men can have sex and not be gay?!! Of course it maybe non-consensual?!!

 

[AProudLefty]

So if two guys are having sex you are saying they may not be gay?

Correct.

 

[Margot]

So if two guys are having sex you are saying they may not be gay?

Sometimes that's true! Falls under the category of drunk,high,horny,any port in the storm! Same applies to women.

 

[Margot]

Is it the act of having gay sex or being attracted to other men?

Sounds like you're suppressing same sex curiosity!
"Not that there's anything wrong with that"!
The only real way to learn how you would react in a same sex situation, is to try one,for no better reason than a learning experience!

 

[Nordberg]

Gays are just people acting as god made them. They are seeking adult relationships with other adult gays. They are not choosing, the choice was made before they were born ,by god.

 

[Tinkerpeach]

Correct.

So having gay sex is a choice?

 

[AProudLefty]

So having gay sex is a choice?

Correct.

 

[Tinkerpeach]

Correct.

So someone claiming to be gay may be doing so from choice.


So all gays are not born that way.

 

[Trumpet]

Is it the act of having gay sex or being attracted to other men?

What caused you to be so psychotic???????

 

[Tinkerpeach]

What caused you to be so psychotic???????

Your mom

She is really freaky

It changed me

 

[AProudLefty]

So someone claiming to be gay may be doing so from choice.


So all gays are not born that way.

Sexual orientation is not a choice. You might be talking about bisexuality.

 

[Tinkerpeach]

Sexual orientation is not a choice. You might be talking about bisexuality.

So a man can enjoy only sleeping with men but that doesn't mean he is gay?

 

[AProudLefty]

So a man can enjoy only sleeping with men but that doesn't mean he is gay?

That is like asking can a man enjoy a one week old burger he found in a dumpster.

 

[AProudLefty]

So a man can enjoy only sleeping with men but that doesn't mean he is gay?

I don't see how that is possible. Maybe while high on meth.

 

[Poor Richard Saunders]

So having gay sex is a choice?

Do you typically have sex with every man you meet that indicates they want to have sex with you? Is it a choice to not have sex?

Having sex is a choice. If you don't have a choice then it would likely be rape. Being gay doesn't mean having sex. Gay couples don't have sex all the time. They are just like any other couple. Sometimes they have sex. Most of the time they don't have sex.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Is it the act of having gay sex or being attracted to other men?

Being attracted. Sexual orientation is about a person's preferences, not their acts. That said, acts are good indicators but as gay men marrying women and having children with them proves, it's not a guarantee.