http://www.salon.com/2013/07/15/our_real_problem_is_white_rage/
While reading the excellent article posted by Darla (reposted above) a couple thoughts came to mind.
1) As Darla has been indicating as well - NO WHITE PERSON - none - knows what it's like to be suspected of wrong-doing just due to the color of your skin. To walk into a store and have clerks keep an extra eye on you. To walk down the street and have people cross to the other side. To be stopped by a cop because "someone like you" shouldn't be in that neighborhood. I include myself in that not knowing; I have a suspicion; I'm pretty empathetic; but I forget. If you are black, you can never forget. Anywhere you go, you are first judged negatively by your skin; you then have to attempt to make a better impression. Whites don't have to do that. Every single day, black people do.
2) I remember white men on this site talking about storming the govt; I left one thread quickly because it actually seemed treasonous to me. But they want to attack the govt because they think it no longer represents them; because it's taking their guns; because - well, whatever. I'm paraphrasing, and since I don't understand their reasoning, hard to get it all straight. But they have talked about overthrowing the govt violently. YET - when black people say "this govt isn't representing me; it's persecuting people of my race; it's discriminating against me" .... they say "no, they must be peaceful! no, there must not be a 'riot' over this! No, black people are just thugs if they raise up against this." Apparently it's only ok to fight back against govt if you are a white man.
Thanks for the article, Darla. Very thought provoking. I hope everyone reads it.
(evince: a FB site you might like if you aren't on it already. I love it!
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Intelligent-classy-well-educated-women-who-say-Fck-a-lot/191907457493339?fref=ts )
One time I was riding with my mom and dad and little bro and sis.
we were hungry and I sais "hey there is a BBQ shop right there" my dad said " No that is a black place".
Now my dad was a product of his upbringing and this is like 1982.
I was an adult at this point and had been on my own for some time.
I looked at him and he knew what was coming.
"Dad the person it running a business and just because they are black is no reason to punish the business".
He grinned and said OK and pulled into the place in a little cali town called Hesperia.
we walked in and at the counter was a young pretty black woman.
She scowled and walked into the back.
we stood there waiting and waiting for quite some time and I looked at my dad and said "OK man".
Just as we were doing so an other black man who was obviously the one who actually cooks came out and said "Oh please don't go how can I help you?".
My dad smiled a sweet smile and said "that is OK man we will go somewhere else" and we did.
I called the young woman an asshole when we got back into the car and told my dad that now I knew why he didn't want to stop.
He knew the area.
Now I know what its like to be refused service for the color of your skin.
Guess how it makes a person feel.
really fucking BAD and angry.
some racist turd would rationalize such an incident as a good reason to continue being a racist turd.
For me it was a kind of gift.
I had a tiny peek in the window.
that window is real.
that window doesn't happen only in a tiny Podunk city in cali.
that solidified for me even more HOW BAD racism is.
I really to this day cant believe it happened and I will BET that young woman today would be ashamed of her own behavior.
You racists can dish it out but you cant take it.
well guess what your way way way outnumbered now because lots of us white people are no longer willing to help you live your lie.