A question for anti-choicers

i guess laws forcing people not to beat their children are against the advancement of freedom as well....shouldn't parents be able to beat their children to make them obedient.....

if the life aborted is human as you've said, then aborting that human life, according to the laws we have regarding murder, should be illegal

Ugh - what a terrible, terrible analogy; completely inappropriate.

You're missing the larger point, which is the discussion that centers around the fact that while the zygote is a human zygote, it is not a human baby. You're veering over into the cut & dry approach of "life STARTS at conception, therefore, terminating a zygote = MURDER."

Do you really think it's MURDER when they destroy a frozen embryo, or something that is microscopic, with no brain or nervous system development?
 
what about the man's rights? its his child too....the state makes the man pay child support if he leaves....yet we don't allow the man a say in whether the child lives....

as i said, if she willingly chose to have sex, she can't complain about getting pregnant....we certaintly force parents to raise their kids without abuse, feed them, clothe them.....why don't you demand NOBODY force parents to feed or clothe their children or take them to school?

It is not a question of the man's rights. It is a question of the rights of the mother vs. the rights of the child.

The man can choose to fight on behalf of the childs rights (who obviously cannot do so on their own)
 
Is reading comprehension your problem? "The man's right to choose what happens..." often translates to the man asking, demanding, urging, etc. the woman to have an abortion because he doesn't want the financial responsibility of an unwanted pregnancy.

But if that's too nuanced for you, then the B&W answer is no, the man cannot demand that the woman carry a pregnancy to term.

i see....so the man has no say in abortion, yet we FORCE him to be financially responsible if the woman chooses to have the baby....

why are you ignoring what i was actually talking about? apparently you do have problems with english....what if the man wants to raise the child, why should we FORCE him to accept that the woman can KILL this unborn human? and if he were to punch her in the stomach so as to cause the death of the child, he would be charged with murder....

how does that make any sense?
 
Sorry... my fault... Both the ZYGOTE and the ADULT are human (as you yourself stated) and BOTH the ACORN and the TREE are OAK.

Your analogy again fails because you keep trying to equate "tree" to "human". The proper comparison is either "tree" to "adult" or "OAK" to "HUMAN"

Again... stating a "zygote is not a person" is the arbitrary portion. The term "person" is completely subjective and as I have said before. THIS is the area where a debate can actually occur.

I don't think our views are all that far off on where the debate should be. Other than your hang up with actually realizing the zygote is human, alive and in existence and thus by definition a human being.

As for whether it is a 'person' and thus entitled to basic rights provided by the Constitution... THAT is where the debate lies.

Well, I agree with most of that. Our views aren't that far off with regard to where the debate lies, and - as I've stated - I won't argue that any solution outside of a ban will basically be arbitrary, as Roe is....
 
You're missing the larger point, which is the discussion that centers around the fact that while the zygote is a human zygote, it is not a human baby. You're veering over into the cut & dry approach of "life STARTS at conception, therefore, terminating a zygote = MURDER."
and you have the cut and dry approach that life begins at "baby".....which is neither accurate or supportable....

I also find it amusing that you only dare discuss "zygote", when in fact no zygote has ever been aborted......no woman even suspects she is pregnant until after the zygote stage has passed......
 
and you have the cut and dry approach that life begins at "baby".....which is neither accurate or supportable....

I also find it amusing that you only dare discuss "zygote", when in fact no zygote has ever been aborted......no women even suspects she is pregnant until after the zygote stage has passed......

I actually took issue earlier in the thread with the argument that life begins at 1st breath; I don't think that's a good argument, so I'm not sure where you're getting that conclusion.

As for debating the zygote stage, I'm aware that abortions are allowed past that. I'm trying to establish a point at which most would agree termination isn't "murder" for the purposes of the larger debate (and sorry - but most people would not equate terminating a microscopic grouping of cells as "murder")
 
what about the man's rights? its his child too....the state makes the man pay child support if he leaves....yet we don't allow the man a say in whether the child lives....

as i said, if she willingly chose to have sex, she can't complain about getting pregnant....we certaintly force parents to raise their kids without abuse, feed them, clothe them.....why don't you demand NOBODY force parents to feed or clothe their children or take them to school?

The problem I have with your responses is what I interpret as your scornful characterization of women with this dilemma. Case in point: "if she willingly chose to have sex, she can't complain about getting pregnant...". If she willingly chose, doesn't that suggest a willing partner? What about his responsibility in insuring that an unwanted pregnancy doesn't happen?

The fact that the woman gets pregnant doesn't let the man off the hook as far as birth control. Generally, having sex is a mutual decision (barring rape, of course) and both parties are responsible for the outcome. Otherwise, your comments can be interpreted that the man has the last word on the whole process from having sex, to impregnating, to choosing that the woman carry to term.
 
Ugh - what a terrible, terrible analogy; completely inappropriate.

You're missing the larger point, which is the discussion that centers around the fact that while the zygote is a human zygote, it is not a human baby. You're veering over into the cut & dry approach of "life STARTS at conception, therefore, terminating a zygote = MURDER."

Do you really think it's MURDER when they destroy a frozen embryo, or something that is microscopic, with no brain or nervous system development?

its a great analogy if you believe human life begins at conception

if you stated that human life does begin at conception, i've repeatedly asked you, if this life is not human, what kind of life is it? i thought you said it was human, but then stuck to your acorn analogy, which is not good btw, and i asked:

Originally Posted by Onceler
I never argued that a zygote isn't human; it is. A zygote is not a baby or an adult, just as an acorn isn't a tree.

The acorn analogy is imperfect, but it isn't a bad one. It has all of the genetic plans for a tree, and is a "life," but it is most definitely not a tree.

YURT but aren't babies and adults human?

you said:

They are. Every stage of human development is "human."

i replied which i haven't seen a reply to (many posts followed this):

then isn't that different than the acorn which is not also a tree, but an acorn

if every stage is human, then i don't see how abortion cannot be murder

CA PC 187: (a) Murder is the unlawful killing of a human being, or a
fetus, with malice aforethought.


notice, that fetus gets you murder if you have malice....what intrigues me is that the woman who aborts apparently doesn't have malice....

the above is where we left off
 
The problem I have with your responses is what I interpret as your scornful characterization of women with this dilemma. Case in point: "if she willingly chose to have sex, she can't complain about getting pregnant...". If she willingly chose, doesn't that suggest a willing partner? What about his responsibility in insuring that an unwanted pregnancy doesn't happen?

The fact that the woman gets pregnant doesn't let the man off the hook as far as birth control. Generally, having sex is a mutual decision (barring rape, of course) and both parties are responsible for the outcome. Otherwise, your comments can be interpreted that the man has the last word on the whole process from having sex, to impregnating, to choosing that the woman carry to term.

you're helpless....i've repeatedly said it is a mutual willingness, barring rape

you're hypocritical as you believe the woman has the ONLY and LAST WORD on the whole process of life, which if bizarre as you clearly state having sex, the beginning of the life process is a mutual decision, yet, you want to take away the mutual decision when it comes to carrying the baby to term....illogical
 
Sheesh, the ten billionth thread where a bunch of dudes debate the degree of regulation and criminalization we need to impose on women’s reproductive organs. I wonder why we hardly ever see women partaking in these exciting debates? While I can’t put myself in their shoes, I guess I’d be kind of creeped out if women were constantly debating the regulation and criminalization of male reproductive biology………..


Pro Choice. I'm pro choice, especially on things like a parents choice on where they send their child to school, ie vouchers, but most "pro choices" are anti-choice there. I'm pro choice on whether people should be able to determine their own retirement and opt out of the government's ponzi bullshit, but most who claim to be "pro choice" are not in favor of honest hard working people having the ability to have that choice. I'm pro choice on whether people should be allowed run their businesses in any way they please, even if it means allowing someone to smoke a cigarette in the bar that I built, slaved over and own. Most "Pro choice" people oppose that choice. I'm pro choice when it comes to allowing people to agree to terms of a service or product and a price, but most "pro choicers" oppose the free exchange without government intervention on every level.

Take your "pro choice" bullshit and shove it down your cock sucking throat. Anti choice? Look in the mirror you utter buffoon. Wait until you have to fend for yourself. Daddy's blanket isn't always going to be around fool. Ivory tower liberals. Whadda joke.

Thanks for playing another exciting round of ”Really Bad Analogies”. Here’s a tip Beefy; liberals don’t consider personal privacy and medical decisions involving one’s own body, to be analogous to taxes, school vouchers, or workplace smoking regulations. In fact, liberals don’t consider them to be in the same universe at all.

You don’t have a right to not be taxed. Taxes are legitimate constitutional legal and policy issues and are subject to legislation via our democratic institutions. With regard to workplace smoking, a lot of people (not just liberals) feel the employee is entitled to a certain level of workplace safety. If you feel you should appropriately expose your employees to cigarette smoke in enclosed environments, that’s fine. We have democratic institutions for you to shape public policy with regard to work place safety regulations. A lot of liberals, like Caesar Chavez, worked their ass off to make sure employees have access to bathrooms, to safe work conditions, or to not be exposed to carcinogens at work. But those rules are all subject to change through our democratic institutions. I’d be more than happy to have the rightwing parties of this country run on a platform to eliminate Medicare, social security, wage laws, and workplace safety regulations. Let’s have an election on that, I’d be more than happy to. That would be an awesome election.

I think where you went off the rail here, is to equate taxes and wage regulations with a personal right to privacy and control over one’s own body. Liberals and most moderates don’t even consider those to be close to being the same thing. In fact, they are almost polar opposites. Most people, and the Supreme Court, agree that there’s a fundamental right to privacy with regard to one’s own body and medical decisions. As far as I can tell, there’s never been a legitimate debate about the constitutional right of our duly elected officials to levy taxes or promulgate workplace wage and safety regulations. Except maybe on Redstate.org and LyndonLarouche.org. I don’t think most people conflate personal privacy with taxes.

As for late term abortion “on demand”; I’m no expert on it. But I assume women who get them, and the doctors who consent to do them, always do it for health and medical reasons. I don’t think there’s a single documented case of a woman, in collusion with her doctor, killing the fetus for the sheer joy of it. But, I could be wrong. Maybe the rightwing blogs have numerous, actual documented cases of this happening.
 
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its a great analogy if you believe human life begins at conception

if you stated that human life does begin at conception, i've repeatedly asked you, if this life is not human, what kind of life is it? i thought you said it was human, but then stuck to your acorn analogy, which is not good btw, and i asked:





you said:



i replied which i haven't seen a reply to (many posts followed this):



the above is where we left off

I don't know what that law is that you're posting, but that gets back to using Webster's. Laws are wildly inconsistent on this topic, and discussion of what is right & wrong is independent of what the legality is at any given time, imo. Roe is the law of the land, but I don't use that to tell pro-lifers "here is the definitive answer, so pipe down."

And I disagree on the acorn analogy; as the discussion has progressed, I actually think it's pretty perfect. Both SF & PMP have said the acorn is OAK, but not a tree. The zygote is HUMAN, but it is not a human being/person. A zygote is not a baby, and a baby is not an adult.

You didn't answer MY question: do you now think that destroying a frozen embryo or terminating something that is microscopic with no brain or nervous system development is definitively MURDER.
 
Woman are much less likely to be tools or fight battles that can't be won.

AOL teabagger sluts around here are the exception
 
Well, I agree with most of that. Our views aren't that far off with regard to where the debate lies, and - as I've stated - I won't argue that any solution outside of a ban will basically be arbitrary, as Roe is....

True... due to the fact that you have the rights of two individuals, the decision will have to be arbitrary. What, if any, rights does the child have? How do we weigh any rights of the child against those of the mother? Does the balance (or the level of rights) change as the childs development progresses?
 
i see....so the man has no say in abortion, yet we FORCE him to be financially responsible if the woman chooses to have the baby....

why are you ignoring what i was actually talking about? apparently you do have problems with english....what if the man wants to raise the child, why should we FORCE him to accept that the woman can KILL this unborn human? and if he were to punch her in the stomach so as to cause the death of the child, he would be charged with murder....

how does that make any sense?

Surely you're not suggesting he shouldn't be financially responsible?

You're starting to talk in circles, yurtie. First you say the man should have a choice in whether the woman has an abortion. Then you complain that if the woman exercises her choice to have the baby, the man is FORCED to be financially responsible for it. I don't know where you're going with this.

If the man doesn't want the financial responsibility of an unwanted pregnancy, should he be personally responsible for protected sex? If the sex was unprotected and the woman becomes pregnant, isn't the man half responsible, so why shouldn't he be financially responsible also?

You're also forgetting that if the man doesn't pay, then the woman is 100% financially responsible for a life that both contributed to making. Is that fair?
 
The problem I have with your responses is what I interpret as your scornful characterization of women with this dilemma. Case in point: "if she willingly chose to have sex, she can't complain about getting pregnant...". If she willingly chose, doesn't that suggest a willing partner? What about his responsibility in insuring that an unwanted pregnancy doesn't happen?

The fact that the woman gets pregnant doesn't let the man off the hook as far as birth control. Generally, having sex is a mutual decision (barring rape, of course) and both parties are responsible for the outcome. Otherwise, your comments can be interpreted that the man has the last word on the whole process from having sex, to impregnating, to choosing that the woman carry to term.

I agree 100% with the above. The two parties (again, barring rape) are responsible for their actions. They both choose to have sex or not. They both choose to use protection or not. They both are aware of how women become pregnant. They are therefore responsible for their actions.

If the woman's health is in danger, the decision is her's and her's alone. Obviously it is also her choice to ask for input from others as well. But when it is her life on the line... her choice.
 
True... due to the fact that you have the rights of two individuals, the decision will have to be arbitrary. What, if any, rights does the child have? How do we weigh any rights of the child against those of the mother? Does the balance (or the level of rights) change as the childs development progresses?

I think it does, and again, I think your characterization of "child" is inappropriate. A zygote is not a baby, just as a baby is not an adult.

Far more people oppose late-term abortions than abortion in general. Even I oppose late-term abortions. Therefore, there must be something along the way that changes a lot of minds with regard to human rights.

The reason I keep bringing up "microscopic" and zygote is because I think most reasonable, intelligent people can make the determination that terminating a small grouping of cells, with no brain or nervous development whatsoever, does not equate to anything even akin to "murder." It's an area that most can find consensus on.

I think during the course of even the 1st trimester, the questions of "personhood" become fuzzier, as human characteristics begin to develop, and brain & nervous development commence. Certainly, in the later trimesters, fetuses have actual response to simuli & some consciousness, and even a devout pro-choicer like myself does not support abortion at that time.

To me, it's about finding a place where you are not ending a conscousness - an individual that is unique not just genetically, but cognitively. I know that's me, and not everyone. But I think it's important that women have some window, no matter how small, to make a decision on whether they not only want to put their body through the rigors of pregnancy & birth, but also if they are ready on every level to bring a child into the world.
 
you're helpless....i've repeatedly said it is a mutual willingness, barring rape

you're hypocritical as you believe the woman has the ONLY and LAST WORD on the whole process of life, which if bizarre as you clearly state having sex, the beginning of the life process is a mutual decision, yet, you want to take away the mutual decision when it comes to carrying the baby to term....illogical

Yes, the woman has the last word on what happens with her body, but that didn't mean the entire topic was closed for discussion from the onset. I also might think that the man should have a vasectomy to prevent future occurrences of this dilemma but I don't have the last word on what he does with his own body.

I don't know everything but I sure as shooting know that a man will never understand the physical and emotional ramifications of pregnancy, which makes a sea change in the woman's life even when it's desired. You're not arguing from a position of strength here.
 
The Dude normally wouldn't touch one this hot. But hear me out, we all know pop's was not turbo-lib protest organizer. Had mom been hard left bent on having and equally successful common law husband she may have had an Ab... well The Dudes here so no sweat.
 
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