I see no irony. When addressing pinhead heathens, it is best to use their language. If you read what came after "standards of decency" you will see it is for our neighborhoods and communities, not the individual. If you read what came before "standards of decency" you understand my personal views are socially libertarian. But as usual, you didn't read much at all, you reacted emotionally to the words "standards of decency" because it's like holy water to someone like you.
Damo, we have little to no control over which issues are pushed to the forefront. That is largely up to our opponents. If abortion and ant-gay marriage are anywhere on our list, our adversaries will put them at the top of the list, because they are successful at stigmatizing these things.
We can continue to do as McCain tried to do, and just not talk about those issues, but then, what is the point in having them on the list? I read your post, and it comes off sounding like you think we should have those positions, but we should keep them locked in a closet, so we can appeal to the non-religious.
Here is what I think, Damo... It's not a matter of priorities, it doesn't matter where on the list we include these things, it's a matter of making the argument for these things, in a way that people can connect with and relate to. It's a matter of making the connection between fiscal conservative policies, and social conservatism driven by faith-based viewpoints. Most importantly, conservatives of all stripes, need to understand the importance of social conservatism, and why it must be a part of conservatism for conservatism to succeed. You don't have to agree with this, the record speaks for itself. Every time we abandon socially conservative principles, we fail to win elections.