Agreed. The old farts gather together to spread their hate and misery against others since they refuse to accept responsibility for themselves. This is a self-defeating form of self-loathing since it has no successful outcome. None of them are getting better after the past few years and most seem to be getting worse. Sailor and Terry are two that spring to mind.
I don't know, Oom. Maybe.
I think that we make a lot of assumption on human behavior that are largely intuitive and not clinically verifiable.
Before Vietnam, I used to hit the road and run every morning before school,
hit the gym right after school,
and then drinks lots of coffee at night to stay awake and study.
My day was 100% full.
After military service, I smoked a pack and a half of unfiltered Camels each day,
profaned of both exercise and diet control,
and worked only at what I could do comfortably, not at what would maximize my income.
I spent my evenings in bars with the Gestapo until the kids arrived.
When the kids came,
I discovered how much I loved to spend time in my own recliner in my own home.
I didn't have "Leave me the fuck alone" tattooed on my forehead,
but everybody could see it anyway.
Some are going to read this and accuse me of complaining about my military service.
They'll be wrong.
Regardless of how I feel about my military service,
this has
NOTHING to do with that.
I'm not complaining or even commenting on
WHY I changed.
I'm not even regretting the changes.
I'm simply explaining
HOW I changed, because a lot of it was behavioral, and that's the topic of this thread.
I didn't become a new person.
Lots of things about me didn't change.
Still major things, largely in the realm of behavior, did.
I don't honestly know what changed.
It would be easy to say the war,
but just as easy to say that the war marked the
time, not the
reason, it happened.
I believe in psychiatry and the treating of mental conditions as being organically manifested.
As for psychological therapists--I guess I mean psychologists--
I've seem nothing to suggest that they're not all completely full of shit.