Honestly its not about indoctrination. My views on the matter of DADT as well as women in combat arms MOS's were not indoctrinated in me by the institution.
My feelings about it are born from experience and an understanding of how best to instill discipline and cohesion, as well as understanding the physical aspects of training. A new recruit has no idea of this one way or the other going in. Its not until you are actually charged with carrying it out do you have a true appreciation for any of these matters.
There isnt an anti-female military approach. Over time as you deploy or go to the field or in your basic every day interactions you "learn" your opinion of females and their military capabilities by being around them. It isnt a broad stroke, and there are exceptions, but my experience and interaction with the majority of females in the Marine Corps has not been positive from a training and operational point of view. This has nothing to do with them as people. But in the military you learn to recognize ability and willingness quickly just in terms of being tools for the defense, which is strictly viewing those individuals as military assets, and to be honest females are just not anywhere close to being on the same level in my experience. Not all of them, but a vast majority of them.
What will most likely happen is that new recruit wont really care until an opportunity is given to a woman and he knows that he is more qualified, that he is stronger, faster, more disciplined, more trustworthy, and has better leadership qualities, he is just a better military asset than she is for the position... and this will cause further cohesion problems as the "numbers" need to be met. I hope it doesnt get that way, but i cant see an 19 yr old girl weighing 120 lbs who can do 4 pullups and run a 25 minute 3 mile, doing a better job than a 19 yr old young man weighing 185 lbs, can do 20 pullups and run an 18:30 3 mile, fulfilling an infantry billet on an even scale. Something will have to give in order for her to be competitive for promotion.... This isnt even touching the scenario where HE is wounded and now SHE is being depended upon to carry him to aid...
The more time they are in, and the more experiences they come across, what IS becomes more and more apparent. Theres no real need to indoctrinate the obvious.