On a bad day, a suggestion that maintaining decorum at a formal event is worth spending more than one millisecond's consideration on might actually piss me off.
These people -- Rove, in this instance -- have forfeited any right to consideration of their feelings in public, frankly. This is where the phrase "bunker mentality" comes into play, when bad people stop getting invited to A-list events.
Totally agree Ornot. But I don't do that well at black tie events anyway. I used to go to them all of the time with my fiance. I look like I fit in but...one time I had a couple of drinks and they were talking about golf, and one of them asked me, "and what do you do all day while Jim is golfing" and I said "well, I stay home and masturbate".
I thought it was funny, but boy did I get a talking to that set my ears to ringing afterwards.