Homophobic? Maybe You’re Gay

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LOL! I'd like to think of it more as the Ugly Truth.lol Sorry if my words offended you, though it seems everyone is pretty blunt on this board. I will refrain from speaking to women on this board in this manner. :)

More bullshit. Homophobia and misogyny are not linked. There are plenty of homophobics that do not hate women. Go ask all the republican evangelicals that just love the hookers.lol

On conclusion, your notion that most people are gay is absurd. Do you get aroused when looking at the opposite sex?

Thank you.

As for the republicans who hate homosexuals but visit hookers - well, I believe that men who use prostitutes hate women. So that's just more evidence for my theory actually!

I find men and women both visually attractive. As to what arouses me, I'd rather keep that out of this.
 
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/29/opinion/sunday/homophobic-maybe-youre-gay.html?_r=1

WHY are political and religious figures who campaign against gay rights so often implicated in sexual encounters with same-sex partners?


In recent years, Ted Haggard, an evangelical leader who preached that homosexuality was a sin, resigned after a scandal involving a former male prostitute; Larry Craig, a United States senator who opposed including sexual orientation in hate-crime legislation, was arrested on suspicion of lewd conduct in a men’s bathroom; and Glenn Murphy Jr., a leader of the Young Republican National Convention and an opponent of same-sex marriage, pleaded guilty to a lesser charge after being accused of sexually assaulting another man.

One theory is that homosexual urges, when repressed out of shame or fear, can be expressed as homophobia. Freud famously called this process a “reaction formation” — the angry battle against the outward symbol of feelings that are inwardly being stifled. Even Mr. Haggard seemed to endorse this idea when, apologizing after his scandal for his anti-gay rhetoric, he said, “I think I was partially so vehement because of my own war.”

It’s a compelling theory — and now there is scientific reason to believe it. In this month’s issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, we and our fellow researchers provide empirical evidence that homophobia can result, at least in part, from the suppression of same-sex desire.

Our paper describes six studies conducted in the United States and Germany involving 784 university students. Participants rated their sexual orientation on a 10-point scale, ranging from gay to straight. Then they took a computer-administered test designed to measure their implicit sexual orientation. In the test, the participants were shown images and words indicative of hetero- and homosexuality (pictures of same-sex and straight couples, words like “homosexual” and “gay”) and were asked to sort them into the appropriate category, gay or straight, as quickly as possible. The computer measured their reaction times.

The twist was that before each word and image appeared, the word “me” or “other” was flashed on the screen for 35 milliseconds — long enough for participants to subliminally process the word but short enough that they could not consciously see it. The theory here, known as semantic association, is that when “me” precedes words or images that reflect your sexual orientation (for example, heterosexual images for a straight person), you will sort these images into the correct category faster than when “me” precedes words or images that are incongruent with your sexual orientation (for example, homosexual images for a straight person). This technique, adapted from similar tests used to assess attitudes like subconscious racial bias, reliably distinguishes between self-identified straight individuals and those who self-identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual.

Using this methodology we identified a subgroup of participants who, despite self-identifying as highly straight, indicated some level of same-sex attraction (that is, they associated “me” with gay-related words and pictures faster than they associated “me” with straight-related words and pictures). Over 20 percent of self-described highly straight individuals showed this discrepancy.

Notably, these “discrepant” individuals were also significantly more likely than other participants to favor anti-gay policies; to be willing to assign significantly harsher punishments to perpetrators of petty crimes if they were presumed to be homosexual; and to express greater implicit hostility toward gay subjects (also measured with the help of subliminal priming). Thus our research suggests that some who oppose homosexuality do tacitly harbor same-sex attraction.

What leads to this repression? We found that participants who reported having supportive and accepting parents were more in touch with their implicit sexual orientation and less susceptible to homophobia. Individuals whose sexual identity was at odds with their implicit sexual attraction were much more frequently raised by parents perceived to be controlling, less accepting and more prejudiced against homosexuals.

It’s important to stress the obvious: Not all those who campaign against gay men and lesbians secretly feel same-sex attractions. But at least some who oppose homosexuality are likely to be individuals struggling against parts of themselves, having themselves been victims of oppression and lack of acceptance. The costs are great, not only for the targets of anti-gay efforts but also often for the perpetrators. We would do well to remember that all involved deserve our compassion.


Richard M. Ryan is a professor of psychology, psychiatry and education at the University of Rochester. William S. Ryan is a doctoral student in psychology at the University of California, Santa Barbara.



Oops. All you homophobic "girls" can come out of the closet, now. Your "shit" is exposed. You know who you are. LOL
 
Thank you.

As for the republicans who hate homosexuals but visit hookers - well, I believe that men who use prostitutes hate women. So that's just more evidence for my theory actually!

I find men and women both visually attractive. As to what arouses me, I'd rather keep that out of this.

Men who pay money to acquire sex from gorgeous women who would would otherwise be out of their league is hating women?lol Your theory sounds flawed.

I find only women attractive. Sure I know the difference between an attractive guy and an ugly guy, but am NOT aroused by even the most attractive male. Thus your notion that everyone is gay is nonsense.
 
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Men who pay money to acquire sex from gorgeous women who would would otherwise be out of their league is hating women?lol Your theory sounds flawed.

I find only women attractive. Sure I know the difference between an attractive guy and an ugly guy, but am NOT aroused by even the most attractive male. Thus your notion that everyone is gay is nonsense.

My notion is not that everyone is gay, and it's actually not my notion. There is pretty extensive research on this. The notion is that few score a straight 100 either straight or gay. Sexuality is a spectrum.

As far as men who use prostitutes, absolutely yes. I think they hate women. I would never get involved with a man who does that. I think they believe all women are whores and they like to prove it by paying women for sex. I also believe that they enjoy purchasing sexual ownership of a woman for a period of time.
 
LOL

i thought you wanted to meet in person and have fisticuffs with me tough guy.....

btw....you said the same thing several times before. i'm not on your ignore list. you crave the attention far too much.
 
My notion is not that everyone is gay, and it's actually not my notion. There is pretty extensive research on this. The notion is that few score a straight 100 either straight or gay. Sexuality is a spectrum.

As far as men who use prostitutes, absolutely yes. I think they hate women. I would never get involved with a man who does that. I think they believe all women are whores and they like to prove it by paying women for sex. I also believe that they enjoy purchasing sexual ownership of a woman for a period of time.

i seriously doubt all men who pay hookers hate women. some are just lonely....
 
one...you don't know what they pay for....two....yeah, you can be lonely for sex, that doesn't mean you hate women.

I don't know what men pay prostitutes for?

Maybe you don't know what men pay prostitutes for, but I know what men pay prostitutes for yurt.

Lonely for sex...why may that be? If you could ever honestly answer that question you'd have your explanation for why it's obvious that men who use prostitutes hate women.
 

Oh it's the big bottom or top debate that passes for giggles yurt. Gays are either the man or the women. This means they either are passive and get f'd, or they're active and they f*ck. Gays are totally unlike heteros and therefore they have no complexity to their sexuality. They are either f'ers or f*ckees. They never change it up. They cannot, ever, be both.

Come to think of it, maybe this is how homophobes view hetero sex too. Who knows.

So tiring.
 
i seriously doubt all men who pay hookers hate women. some are just lonely....

It's part of our genetics. They want to bang all the prime breeding specimens! And in this day and age, the media dictates to us what that prime breeding specimen is. Thin women.
 
My notion is not that everyone is gay, and it's actually not my notion. There is pretty extensive research on this. The notion is that few score a straight 100 either straight or gay. Sexuality is a spectrum.

As far as men who use prostitutes, absolutely yes. I think they hate women. I would never get involved with a man who does that. I think they believe all women are whores and they like to prove it by paying women for sex. I also believe that they enjoy purchasing sexual ownership of a woman for a period of time.

Sorry but your notion is not supported by reality. The Biological function of humans is to procreate. Not to be attracted to the same gender. Your notion has no science to stand on. If I did a study, I'd say most of the male population would not be aroused staring at men in their speedos. But women in bikinis? That is another thing. :)

I'm sure there are many different reasons men employ prostitutes. I doubt that the majority hate women. The majority employ them because they love sexy women. There may be some that are bitter of having been rejected all their lives by attractive women. Though that is not the reason they get hookers. They get hookers because all guys want to bang sexy women. Them the facts.lol Guys that hate women are those prostitute killing serial killers.
 
Sorry but your notion is not supported by reality. The Biological function of humans is to procreate. Not to be attracted to the same gender. Your notion has no science to stand on. If I did a study, I'd say most of the male population would not be aroused staring at men in their speedos. But women in bikinis? That is another thing. :)

I'm sure there are many different reasons men employ prostitutes. I doubt that the majority hate women. The majority employ them because they love sexy women. There may be some that are bitter of having been rejected all their lives by attractive women. Though that is not the reason they get hookers. They get hookers because all guys want to bang sexy women. Them the facts.lol Guys that hate women are those prostitute killing serial killers.

And why do you think it is that these men are incapable of forming a connection, however fleeting, with a woman who doesn't get paid to entertain them sexually? Are you aware that a minority of men regularly use prostitutes? (I am not speaking here of a male who used one once when he was 19 or something like that) How do you believe the majority of men get sex with women they consider attractive?
 
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