If you're a woman, your values are probably mostly stupid

Lao Tse

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It's not that your stupid.

you're not.

Your brilliant and cunning in what matters to you.

but what matters to you is dumb.


that's the point here.
 
You must be one of those lucky guys that never gets in a huuuge argument over NOTHING with his spouse. I can definitely relate to the OP.

I don't know AssHat's dating/marital status but posts like this usually come from a single man (not that married men can't relate of course).
 
"if mama ain't happy, nobody's happy" -- folk wisdom

this is so true we all laugh.

and it's over like, the floor, or something ocd.

or empty status signalling no matter how much it puts your future in jeopardy.

that.
 
"if mama ain't happy, nobody's happy" -- folk wisdom

this is so true we all laugh.

and it's over like, the floor, or something ocd.

or empty status signalling no matter how much it puts your future in jeopardy.

that.

I could start a thread called "Dumb Arguments With Wife" thread. I wonder how many on this board would believe
the arguments me and the mrs. get into.
 
Date didn't go well last night?

:thumbsup:

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what's the dumbest?
Too many to remember. This was the latest.
Me and the Mrs playing golf together riding in a golf cart.
Wife's phone ring, she answers. She gets out of the golf cart and her water bottle tips over and spills.
After the phone call she yells at me for spilling her water. "I didn't spill your water, it tipped over when you got out of the cart" I answer.
Escalates.
Finally she yells very loudly, "Are you calling me a liar!"
I've had enough. I take my clubs out of the cart and walk back to the house (we have one on the 9th tee box). Wife continues playing alone for 9 more holes.
Many times I ask myself why I don't have the courage to divorce.
Then she gets home, acts like nothing happened, cooks dinner, drinks a beer with me.
This is a bipolar person I'm dealing with.
 
It's not that your stupid.

you're not.

Your brilliant and cunning in what matters to you.

but what matters to you is dumb.


that's the point here.
In modern times, it is ok for women to want to be friends so they can practice trying to addict us to their crack and get away with it?
 
Too many to remember. This was the latest.
Me and the Mrs playing golf together riding in a golf cart.
Wife's phone ring, she answers. She gets out of the golf cart and her water bottle tips over and spills.
After the phone call she yells at me for spilling her water. "I didn't spill your water, it tipped over when you got out of the cart" I answer.
Escalates.
Finally she yells very loudly, "Are you calling me a liar!"
I've had enough. I take my clubs out of the cart and walk back to the house (we have one on the 9th tee box). Wife continues playing alone for 9 more holes.
Many times I ask myself why I don't have the courage to divorce.
Then she gets home, acts like nothing happened, cooks dinner, drinks a beer with me.
This is a bipolar person I'm dealing with.

yes needless shit stirring. check.

house on the golf course. that's nice.
 
I could start a thread called "Dumb Arguments With Wife" thread. I wonder how many on this board would believe
the arguments me and the mrs. get into.

I've learned over the years that the best thing to do when you get in one of those spousal arguments is to take a deep breath and listen. Amidst the crazy, there is a takeaway. It can often get lost in the emotion of the argument. Being 'right' isn't winning. Learning from the argument is. My wife is an assassin. She goes right for the jugular. I just stay quiet and try to figure out what she's really mad about. This has served me well. I've learned an amazing amount about her in a short time by staying passive. I'm sure I'll be accused now of not being a 'real man', but I'm pretty sure I'm winning :)
 
You must be one of those lucky guys that never gets in a huuuge argument over NOTHING with his spouse. I can definitely relate to the OP.

There is no "date" or "spouse" involved here. It's an Incel's Lament to attack women. Like many male gays, incels are misogynists. I don't know if there's a connection.

https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2018/7/20/gay-men-can-be-misogynists-too
Gay Men Can Be Misogynists Too
Gay men — like the rest of us — are products of a patriarchal social structure, which feminist theorists believe is the root cause of female oppression in cultures throughout the world. This part isn’t news. However, perhaps gay misogynists can be more dangerous to identify because of how easily they infiltrate the cracks of even the burliest of lesbian feminists, like me. We unknowingly excuse gay men of their misogynistic tendencies, especially when it comes to verbiage ("bitch," "girl," etc.). And the more we are unaware, the longer we allow misogyny to exist among those whom we’ve long thought to be our brothers in arms.


https://www.theguardian.com/music/2...silence-her-the-dark-side-of-gay-stan-culture
'They just wanted to silence her': the dark side of gay stan culture
For gay men, ‘stanning’ – being a super fan of – female pop stars can be a valuable part of your identity. But too often this fandom lapses into misogyny and body shaming

Even when gay men aren’t raining outright abuse on these women, their praise can sometimes reveal different forms of misogyny. One recent trend is to laud women by hailing them as “skinny” or a “skinny legend” – a trope that took off with a meme about Mariah Carey. Though it is used figuratively to imply flawlessness, it is revealing that a word historically used to police female physicality has naturally evolved in the gay male vernacular. Can it be anything other than chauvinist body-shaming?...

..Gay men and pop’s women alike benefit from the mutuality of their “special relationship”. Spears is unlikely to have noticed one nasty T-shirt through the love heaped on her that day. But with gay male misogyny being discussed more widely than ever, in terms of our nightlife, queer spaces, and social movements, what does it say when this relationship is often so heartless? What kind of permissiveness are we helping to cultivate around misogyny? Deep down, do we really know what it means to love these women?
 
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