Is it ok to tell a woman you work with that she is fat?

[Tinkerpeach]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

 

[Concart]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

Have they been telling you that when you take a break? Maybe stop taking advantage of the free food you’re getting from your job at Mac and Dons. They are probably right. I’d guess you’re around 250. Sound about right Nora?

 

[NiftyNiblick]

It can be true as hell,

but in the modern world, saying it will get you fired or at least suspended.

Why would a person want to do that anyway?

 

[Jarod]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

Why tell them, just because something is true does not mean you need to say it. I suspect they already know.

I dont tell my wife she is blond, she has a mirror.

 

[Tinkerpeach]

Why tell them, just because something is true does not mean you need to say it. I suspect they already know.

I dont tell my wife she is blond, she has a mirror.

Because they usually ask you, "do you think I'm fat".

 

[Dutch Uncle]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

Same as telling them they are fucking nuts, stupid and nice tits. What's the problem?

 

[archives]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

No, cause if she is as fat as you say she certainty already knows it

 

[Jarod]

Because they usually ask you, "do you think I'm fat".

If they ask, Id say something polite, like "It might be healthy to lose a few pounds." I do not think anyone has ever asked me that.

 

[zymurgy]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

I honestly am curious how old you are?

this is a childish question.

no - it is not ok to tell a coworker that they are fat. or ugly. or dumb.

 

[RB 60]

It can be true as hell,

but in the modern world, saying it will get you fired or at least suspended.

Why would a person want to do that anyway?

Even worse is saying that to your wife or girlfriend. They will kick you out of your own house. And you will leave!

 

[Tinkerpeach]

No, cause if she is as fat as you say she certainty already knows it

What if she asks you?

 

[Hawkeye10]

I have been reading that at least at work complimenting a woman on anything that has to do with how she looks is now frowned upon, especially for men.

 

[Hawkeye10]

Heather was talking in the last DarkHorse that years ago when she heard people complaining about how bad others looked she was all "Fuck off, it is none of your business" but people dress and look so bad now she has changed her mind.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

What if she asks you?

Boobs are mostly fat. Jus' sayin'.

 

[Margot]

I mean if she is then she is, is that acceptable?

No! Unacceptable in the work place!

 

[Margot]

What if she asks you?

Lie

 

[ThatOwlWoman]

It can be true as hell,

but in the modern world, saying it will get you fired or at least suspended.

Why would a person want to do that anyway?

They don't. Stinkerbelle is a troll and attention whore.

 

[ThatOwlWoman]

Because they usually ask you, "do you think I'm fat".

Sure they do, sure. BTW, you've informed us that you're "retired" at age 42. Or did you really mean "fired"?

 

[Althea]

Because they usually ask you, "do you think I'm fat".

That's not what the thread title asked.

 

[Althea]

If they ask, Id say something polite, like "It might be healthy to lose a few pounds." I do not think anyone has ever asked me that.

My standard answer to that question is 'I can't tell...I'd have to see you naked'.