No? I thought the fact that they were honor students, graduated from a major university (one Summa Cum Laude and the other with honors and is headed to seminary school), and the fact that they are happy healthy young men who still like hanging out with their dad would be a good clue.
The oldest does a lot of volunteer and mission work. In fact, he spent all his spring breaks doing mission work. He went to Mexico twice, the Dominican Republic once, and New Orleans once. And despite working full time, he still manages to volunteer even now.
The other is working on his masters degree and will probably do his PhD work at Georgia Tech. He was offered full rides at more high end schools than you can shake a stick at, and was the first freshman to ever be asked to do engineering research at his university. A friend of the family has said there is a job waiting for him at NASA whenever he wants it. And he has been dating the sweetest young lady for about a year now. She is another academically gifted youngster with none of the pitfalls so typical of that age. She helps my son with his dinner parties. He is turning into quite the culinary entertainer. (and he is a pretty decent bartender)
You didn't notice my daughter in the pic? She is the one people tend to comment on first. She graduated with honors too, and is working on her degree in Forensic Psychology. Quite the sharp young lady.