I have one son and 3 grandchildren, spent the day yesterday with the grandchildren. We made some crafts together.
My son now is another matter, he was by my first wife who dumped me when he was 2. She was your type of Gal spin, just all about money.
I was not allowed much control over his life. Courts were much more sexually biased in divorce cases than they are now. And it is still biased. Mommys baby, daddys maybe.
My son grew up with his mothers sense of morality. Been in jail, etc. ripped me off for tens of thousands, drugs, etc.
I have never been in jail, was just incredibly niave for marring the slut in the first place..Religious isolated upbringing was expensive to me in many ways...
Doing what I can for the grandchildren, but the deck is stacked against them.
They are in my will as a trust thing.