Online Personality: Fantasy or Reality?

[ThatOwlWoman]

Yes, Althea was there as well under a different name, but it’s not coming to me.

I thought I remembered her being a mod for just a short time.

Althea is a dude. The sn is his cat.

 

[LurchAddams]

Sorry Dutch. Your probation will end Sunday, June 12 at 5pm Pacific, 8pm Eastern. Check your local listings.

Behave yourself next time. You don't have to dominate everything. You'll be fine.

 

[Phantasmal]

Althea is a dude. The sn is his cat.

Her as in Darla.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Sorry Dutch. Your probation will end Sunday, June 12 at 5pm Pacific, 8pm Eastern. Check your local listings.

Behave yourself next time. You don't have to dominate everything. You'll be fine.

Why wait?

I yam what I yam. Unlike you, I yam closer to WYSIWYG.

 

[ThatOwlWoman]

I started posting at DCJ around 2010. I had known BAC from this board and he migrated to DCJ and so I started posting there, and here. Then DCJ shutdown and we coaxed BAC back here, but the racists are just too much for him, and now, I don’t know what’s become of him.

He's doing well, just is sick of the continued polarization and hate and racism in this country. Who could blame him? Well, er, uh... we know who.

2010 is when I discovered the Amazon forums, including the politics one. I hung out for a while and just read posts, then jumped in. Within a few days, I was courted and schmoozed by a queen of the RW gossip girls clique (which included several neutered males as well). I was advised to avoid this person or that (always a LW female). I declined to join the Klub and the rest is history.

 

[ThatOwlWoman]

Drama Queen = bipolarism

It also equals a sad person with very low self-esteem. Minty constantly says that this is some backwater POS forum so who cares who says what on it -- but then she freaks out about who says what.

Seriously, how invested in some other person that you know nothing about, to call her a CUNT because you hate and fear her for *nothing* she ever did to you? She thinks that being called that makes me look bad. It doesn't. It's just a word. Calling me that says a lot more about Minty and her issues and meltdowns here today, than it does about me. So does her obsession with pretending I doxed her or anyone else.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

And that's a knockout.. that's a wrap, folks.

Shut down!!! Yeah!!

It appears I was wrong about bipolarism. Histrionic personality disorder is a better fit: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200709/field-guide-the-drama-queen
Field Guide to the Drama Queen
The extreme drama queen likely suffers from histrionic personality disorder (which affects about 2 percent of Americans). They require excessive approval and reassurance, and they may also exhibit dramatic speech.

"They tend to exaggerate their thoughts and feelings, making everything sound more important than it really is," says Sheri Spirt, an assistant professor of psychiatry at NYU Medical Center. "They are often extroverted. They throw tantrums if they are not the center of attention. It is very common in actresses, as this behavior is advantageous for them." They tend to be unaware of their real feelings, are usually overly concerned with physical attractiveness, and dress in a sexually seductive manner.

Our ways of talking about this sort of behavior are female-oriented, perhaps because histrionic personality disorder is much more common in women than men. "Given that we socialize boys not to be terribly emotionally expressive, it takes something pretty strong to give a boy an overly dramatic style," says Westen. "One of the ways that you can get like this is if you are more effeminate. There is a whole literature on gay males and females having, as early as young childhood, more characteristics that are normatively of the other gender."

 

[Dutch Uncle]

It also equals a sad person with very low self-esteem. Minty constantly says that this is some backwater POS forum so who cares who says what on it -- but then she freaks out about who says what.

Seriously, how invested in some other person that you know nothing about, to call her a CUNT because you hate and fear her for *nothing* she ever did to you? She thinks that being called that makes me look bad. It doesn't. It's just a word. Calling me that says a lot more about Minty and her issues and meltdowns here today, than it does about me. So does her obsession with pretending I doxed her or anyone else.

Agreed about a low self-esteem situation.

I don't understand all the drama nor all the names being tossed around from years ago.

 

[Life is Golden]

You give a fuck about posts from 11 years ago from two people in a feud. You're discussing posts from 11 years ago now, Lig. LOL

You're emotionally upset over a feud between two people. As I stated yesterday, I try to stay out of it. Yes, feuds are unhealthy but once you or I tell the participants that fact, we have a choice to back off or jump in. You chose to jump in and I chose to back off.

You jumping on me about it doesn't do anything except prove you are more emotionally attached to this than you are willing to admit. In short, ma'am, you really do GAF.

Your attempts to defend the insane doxxing cunt have failed miserably. Any reader can see it is batshit crazy to stalk a person and grind an axe over a "meanie post" from over a decade ago.

Crazy doesn't even begin to describe it. I've never done such as that. Ask the posters who "know" me from years past. I'm not a stalker or a doxxer and don't give a rat's ass what someone posted to me in 2007. Only lunatics do.

 

[Life is Golden]

It's delicious that you are so frantic and freaked out about this, Minty. Why is that? Is it undermining your bizarre campaign to discredit me and paint me to be as ugly and dishonest as you? You're afraid that I know the REAL you, that you revealed in some moments of weakness. I'm fucking up your MintyHeroDefenderOfFakeVictims persona... because we know you're not that at all. You're just an ugly, angry, bitter racist loser who thinks by championing others like yourself, you'll be redeemed. And where is your latest squeeze, Toxic? Why isn't she here defending you? Ask Eagle Eye why.

Bwahahaha!

Get bent, you lying, doxxing cunt.

Your post history reveals how utterly disturbed you are, your sick obsession is undeniable. Relentlessly stalking and doxxing someone for YEARS because of a "meanie post" decades ago. I'm simply shining a spotlight on what everyone can read.

Get help. No one needs it more than you.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Your attempts to defend the insane doxxing cunt have failed miserably. Any reader can see it is batshit crazy to stalk a person and grind an axe over a "meanie post" from over a decade ago.

Crazy doesn't even begin to describe it. I've never done such as that. Ask the posters who "know" me from years past. I'm not a stalker or a doxxer and don't give a rat's ass what someone posted to me in 2007. Only lunatics do.

You are falsely accusing me of defending a feud. The evidence is here for all to read showing that, between the four of us, I'm the only one trying to stay out of it. The fact you have to lie proves you are guilty .

 

[Matt Dillon]

No, he just quit posting. The last screen name that he used was "Captain Underdog" which of course had to become Capt. Underpants. lol

He did the same things here, along with stalking various ppl. He even went so far to claim that he came up here where we live and wanted us to meet him at a bar so he could beat us up. He gave the name of the bar (one he randomly googled) and what time he would supposedly be there. Little did he know that one of my school friends is a server there. Predictably, he did not show. When exposed, he vanished shortly thereafter. He also had mods from another forum coming here to report on his trolling and doxing activities. He's a mess.

Was that Trinnity, or uh..damn..older dude. He's always setting danialpalos straight. And I can't remember right now.

He watches college sports n stuff.

 

[Life is Golden]

You are falsely accusing me of defending a feud. The evidence is here for all to read showing that, between the four of us, I'm the only one trying to stay out of it. The fact you have to lie proves you are guilty .

You defend that nasty cunt at every turn but cannot cogently defend her insanity. I'm merely spotlighting what always been there for all to see.

 

[Life is Golden]

Better call in your reinforcements, cunt. I'm on a roll.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

You defend that nasty cunt at every turn but cannot cogently defend her insanity. I'm merely spotlighting what always been there for all to see.

Feel free to quote any offending posts you recall so that you and I can discuss it like calm, rational adults.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Was that Trinnity, or uh..damn..older dude. He's always setting danialpalos straight. And I can't remember right now.

He watches college sports n stuff.

Trinnity (note the spellin') is a late middle-aged upper middle-class boxed wine aficionado with a boutique Alt-Right forum. Since Trump's attempted coup, she'd backed off quite a bit....which indicates guilt. I suspect the Feds had a heart-to-heart chat with her and her nutjobs forum members. Someting like:

"Show us the PMs, emails and everything else you have, Trinnity" or go to jail for contempt".

 

[Matt Dillon]

Trinnity (note the spellin') is a late middle-aged upper middle-class boxed wine aficionado with a boutique Alt-Right forum. Since Trump's attempted coup, she'd backed off quite a bit....which indicates guilt. I suspect the Feds had a heart-to-heart chat with her and her nutjobs forum members. Someting like:

"Show us the PMs, emails and everything else you have, Trinnity" or go to jail for contempt".

I think it was a guy that's a mod elsewhere, but he's a member here, too.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

I think it was a guy that's a mod elsewhere, but he's a member here, too.

Trinnity with two N's is a female owner of a political forum.

 

[Dutch Uncle]

Back to personalities:

[url]https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen
5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen
Why thriving on drama leads to instability, anxiety, and dissatisfaction.[/URL]

Why do some people have a need for drama?

Attention
For me, my need for drama stemmed partly from a need for attention. I often felt unnoticed in life and felt bypassed by other people. I had some vulnerable narcissistic tendencies going on and had a need for recognition. Creating drama was one way of gaining attention by sharing my (sometimes very funny, sometimes scary) stories with other people. People with a need for drama often display personality disorders including borderline, psychopathic, and narcissistic disorders.1

Learned behaviour
When you are raised in a family where drama plays a central role—perhaps as the result of being raised by a narcissistic or borderline parent—you learn that this is just how people act. Without a role model of relationship stability, you might internalise that people show love and affection through unstable and dramatic behaviour.

Self-destructive behaviours
If you have experienced trauma—for instance, in the form of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse—then recreating dramatic situations can be seen as a form of self-destructive behaviour. It is impossible to feel happy and content whilst you are living within sequential dramas; continuing to engage in this type of behaviour may stem from low self-esteem which is the result of past trauma.

Manipulation and control
Creating a drama is one way of controlling others and is often a form of passive aggression. Instead of being open and honest with people you are involved with, you can draw them into a drama—perhaps by creating a reason to fight with them—in order to make them feel bad about themselves or guilty about the way they have acted towards you.

One client told me that, after a temporary split with her boyfriend, she lied about going to the doctor and being told she would need tests to establish whether or not she had cancer. Her personal drama allowed her to pull her boyfriend back into the relationship.

Excitement
I used to enjoy the excitement of being involved in a drama. Nothing gets the adrenaline flowing quicker than wondering if you’re going to be caught out. Some people in couples get addicted to the passion of make-up sex and the intensity of emotion which follows an argument. They become so used to being on an emotional rollercoaster that they become addicted to it.

Give up the fights, the lies, the manipulation, the intense intimacy, and… you’re a bit lost. How do you know your relationship is going okay without the breaking and making up? If you stop creating dramas, you’ll feel for a while that there’s nothing in its place—it’s the same as stopping any other self-destructive behaviours. You’ve got so used to this way of being you don’t know how to act differently.

Personality or developmental disorder
If you find yourself constantly experiencing life as a series of highs and lows and you really don’t know why, you may have an undiagnosed personality or developmental disorder such as bipolar disorder or emotionally unstable personality disorder. Your behaviour may feel very out of control at times and you should seek out help and assistance from a qualified professional.

 

[ThatOwlWoman]

Agreed about a low self-esteem situation.

I don't understand all the drama nor all the names being tossed around from years ago.

It's just Minty being triggered because she thinks that no one can figure out her diseased personality. She forgot that several old-timers here knew her from way back when. Now that she lies that they did not has been debunked, she had a meltdown over it. But yes, she's so happy and well-adjusted and never angry or miserable like "those people over there."