Dixie - In Memoriam
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if they are conservative democrats why are you worried about secular values passing?? lol
dixie why do you hate gay people so much?? would the world be a worse place if gays married??
would crime go up?? air quality go down?? homelessness go up??
do you have any valid reason other than your disdain of people like me?
Rob, I don't know where you get that I hate you, I have never said that, and I know I have often told you that I didn't hate you. In fact, I think I have stood up for you and gays, against people like the perv, who want to assume a gay man should have been "investigated" based on being gay, because that was supposed to be some sort of 'red flag' that he was a pedophile. I have also broken with traditional religious-based conservative values, and supported civil union legislation.
We've discussed "gay marriage" before, and I have no problem with two gay people, wanting to ceremonially recognize their love for each other, in fact, I have some gay friends who have done just that. My position is against government sanctioning and licensing of marriage, based on a sexually deviant behavior. I am sorry that word bothers you, but again, I was clear that I didn't mean to offend you with it, I am merely speaking in clinical terms, not personal ones.
I understand it is easy to become emotionally entangled in this issue, people want to feel compassion and be respectful of others, and I get that. This is why I am in favor of civil union legislation, or just doing away with government-sanctioned marriage licensing altogether. I just don't support an activist movement to destroy a religious-based institution, for the sake of attacking religious morality. I can't support changing an age-old social acceptance of 'marriage' for the sake of allowing deviant sexual behavior to be glorified, and that is what is happening with Gay Marriage.
Now, you hear me say "deviant" and your blood starts to boil, as you interpret this as bigotry, prejudice, and condemnation, and from my perspective, it is not. I would say, particularly with modern day sexuality, most everyone deviates from the norm in some regard. The point is, we don't establish laws or change our terms, based on these deviance's. You are free to masturbate in private all you like, you are not free to wear a trench-coat to the park and ogle kids while you do it, and it has nothing to do with what "harm" you are causing in this act. Clearly, this deviant behavior wouldn't "harm" anyone, and no one wants to "control" the sexual desires of such a person, but we don't change our definition of 'indecent exposure' because this person has the desire, and is not "hurting" anyone.
Okay, if you don't like the 'perv in the park' example, apply it to the opposite direction... say a bunch of Quakers and Mennonites start a new sexual-awareness revolution, and want to redefine "sex" as the missionary intercourse to produce offspring, and anything outside that, is hereby outlawed as a perverted sickness? Can we establish this viewpoint as law? Are you alright with that, if most of society agrees with it? I'm not! I don't want the government determining what IS and ISN'T acceptable human sexual behavior. I recognize the need to allow laws to protect people from deviant sexual behaviors, as well as the need for moral boundaries, whether they are religiously-based or not.