That's the problem; you want instant solutions. As unlikely as they are, they are even moreso when a fair portion of the minority population is hellbent on presenting itself as defunct.
How about we all work our hardest at living and develop a reputation?
I have done so, I have taught my children to do so,what is your suggestion for people who don't. Your solutions are anecdotal as Baxter said.
It is like saying,we can all just get along! Kumbyah!