Politics aside, I usually defend San Francisco because it’s my home. That said, from COVID through the recent election of Mayor Lurie, it was very fair to call this place a sh*thole. And to be clear, it wasn’t just conservative media saying that. The New York Times and other mainstream outlets were reporting on how bad things had gotten.  To his credit, while there are still issues, Mayor Lurie has done an excellent job.
I hear the same thing when people leave the Bay Area for places like Texas or Florida or send their kids to school in the South. People say, “how could you move to such a backwards sh*thole” or “why would you send your kids there.” It’s the same kind of bias, just reversed.