Hello LurchAddams,
Holding grudges won't fix things. It only hurts the one holding the grudge. Those elected Republicans are out there, but they are slipping away because of all the animosity. Liz Cheney is currently elected. So is Adam Kinzinger. Cheney lost her election largely because Republicans think Democrats are horrible people. When we lash out at them it reinforces those feelings.
If we are nice does it change anything right away? No, there is no instant gratification. Doing the right thing often results in delayed gratification.
You know what the deal is for the 'nice guy.' We all know who gets the stinky end of the stick. Do we still need nice people in this world? Is there a place for that any more? Is the world what we make it? Or are we simply powerless to affect human interaction.
Does getting the stinky end of the stick mean it's not worth being nice?
What famous wise people say we should hold grudges?
None.
Wise men and women over the ages have advised patience, perseverance, hard work, discipline, consideration, compassion, peace.
None of them have said there is any instant recognition for any of this, no instant gratification quotes from great minds to be found.
If we really want America to be great, we have to be great.
Being mean is not a great idea!