Hello NiftyNiblick,
It appears that our standards of acceptability, PoliTalker, have virtually no overlap. I don't see any at all.
You don't find the 70 million+ Trump voters to be as vile as Trump himself. I do, and I make not a single exception.
I have purged friends of fifty years and more, close to violently in some cases, from my life---with no regrets other than having once been that poor of a character judge in choosing friends.
You can be happy living in a nation with all those Trumpanzees slithering around in it. I would never want to be that tolerant of disgracefulness and perversion.
I know of no mechanism that I can apply to reduce my standards to that level.
Everything must be valued in qualitative terms. There is no absolute value to life. Having voted for Trump is a perfect indication of having a valueless life,
You say that most Americans don't want to partition, but I would bring to your attention my perfectly complete absence of regard for at least half of those people that you include as Americans.
Actually, I should be content to merely disregard them, but I'm genetically programmed to viscerally hate them. I didn't choose my own DNA. It's what my strong conscience requires me to do.
PoliTaker, you have a level of optimism that every bit of my life's experience clearly shows me is unwarranted. Your life can't have been THAT much different than mine. Obviously, then, your standards of acceptability have to be completely different.
Keep posting though. I will. There will be no meaningful debate coming from it--of that I'm positive--but at least we can vent.
Well, the way it works for me is I do not judge people. I judge what they do. I make a distinction. The honest feelings I have for Trump are that I feel sorry for him. I can clearly see that he does not enjoy life and is not happy. He's got all this money and power, gets his way on everything he wants, but he is still not happy. I have a pretty modest life compared to his and I love my life. My life features true love and companionship, and a great circle of friends. He knows none of that. I, of modest means, truly feel sorry for he, of great wealth. My life is as low stress as I can make it; his is stress overload. If I could have all his wealth, but had to take on his stress? I would turn it down. That would be a bad deal.
I have friends and relatives who voted for him. These are people I have loved and respected for far longer than the President Trump era. I am not about to sever long standing relationships over a one-term wonder, an oddity of presidents. My relationships are more important to me than my politics. I don't hate them. I just think they've made a mistake.
I have been wronged before and probably will be again. I decided long ago that holding grudges only hurts me, not the person I might be begrudging. I learned to forgive. It has been fabulous. I can truly let things go that others would never be able to. I consider that ability a bedrock to having a low stress life. If somebody truly annoys me I just try to distance myself from them. That's why I use the Ignore feature so adeptly.
The ability to let things go and forgive, even if I never tell the person I am forgiving, has been the single most powerful tool in my enjoyment of life efforts. To know that holding a grudge only hurts me; and to be able to conquer that urge and really just not do it, well, it's fabulous. I have a very wonderful and peaceful life and it's not by accident. I figured out how to do it; and I did what was needed. I created the life I love; and I did it on purpose. I am an atheist, so it was up to me to look out for my own psyche. I am not getting life-coached by a pastor. Instead, I have selected traits in people I admire and tried to pattern my own habits after them. Glad I did. It's working great. Even my posting style is patterned after posters of my past that I have admired.
I know a lot of people come here to vent. I have been the target for some of that. I brush it off as if it were nothing. It really is nothing to me. I don't really have any venting to do. I am mainly drawn to this place for the learning and interaction with interesting minds. Helps me stay abreast of politics, stay informed.
I see the people who come here to vent, I see them vent, and I see that it appears to not decrease the pressure they carry. The venting does not appear to be effective because it is never enough to satisfy what drives it. The venting goes on and on with no end. If it really accomplished it's goal it would not have to be repeated without end.
Not all Trump voters are like the mean posters here. There are a lot of hard working people whose efforts make America great. Our country could not function without them. To me, there has to be a way that they fit into the larger picture of America. I can't picture our nation without them. Police, firefighters, construction workers, military people, front line workers, blue collar people. Doctors and executives, too. These are productive people who contribute to our society. Our nation would be less without them. Sure, we disagree, but I don't feel hatred coming from all of them, nor do I hate them. We just disagree and that's OK.
Diversity makes America great. I say that because I know it is true. There is a place for everybody in America.