You didn't ask me but you included me in your bimbo label so I'll answer.
My attitude would be exactly the same if she had knocked HIM out of his chair forcibly grabbing at him.... particularly if she was as much larger than he was as Mr. Baer is compared to Mrs. Baer. Men can be victims of DV too.
Your attempt to spin this into a liberal vs conservative women thing isn't working too well. You are, however, revealing a bit more about yourself than you might want to. It's not just survivors who can be triggered.
Owl; "My attitude would be exactly the same if she had knocked HIM out of his chair forcibly grabbing at him."
Jack: He was retrieving HIS phone. Why was he doing that? Oh yeah, he took it from him. DO YOU CONDONE TAKING OTHER PEOPLE'S PROPERTY???
Owl: "Your attempt to spin this into a liberal vs conservative women thing isn't working too well."
Jack: I'm not doing that at all. I don't think this has ANYTHING to do with 'liberal vs conservative'. I believe that is a device used by your friend to DISTRACT from the actual argument.