Dixie - In Memoriam
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My dad didn't tell me what to think, he asked me what I thought. He would stimulated, not dictated. He respected what I thought and we had father son conversations. And if he disagreed, he would explain why. He taught by asking, not telling. He taught by example, not edicts. He taught by encouragement, not discouragement or denunciation. But when I think of my dad today, I miss his company, his wisdom, his faith in me and most of all his undying love.
Awww, how touching! I will bet that a vast majority of individuals would describe their relationship with their dad in much the same way, regardless of whether he was a conservative or liberal, and regardless of the 'method' of child rearing used. You claim your dad didn't tell you what to think, he asked you what you thought... I can't recall my dad ever asking me what I thought when I was a kid! I don't think me or my siblings would have ever respected his authority, had he asked us what we thought... we were mush-brain kids, what the fuck does it matter what WE think? His 'job' wasn't to be our 'friend' but rather, to be our PARENT! He did an outstanding job of that, as did our mom.