So principal, even if it is bigoted is ok? If you don't believe in gay marriage don't marry someone of your gender. Simple as that. You rightwingers though confuse non interference with endorsement. Just because you don't think the government should interfere in the private consensual relationships of adults does not mean you condone or even approve of it. Every state in the union allows divorce. Do you really think that means the state is encouraging, condoning or even approving of divorce?
YOu can get out of a contract anytime you want. If you try to get out while you still have some obligation you have to come to some sort of settlement but even in contract law, unless you have suffered some loss already, courts rarely require specific performance nor do they make one party pay for something if the other party has not already suffered a loss by relying on the contract. When BOTH parties agree to sever their contractual binds they just do it without even getting a court involved. Breach is but ONE reason for the termination of a contract. So your contract analogy is valid but not for the reason you thought.
My first wife and I had no kids. IT was as simple as preparing documents and going our separate ways.
As much as they are a third party when you drive your car to the store. They are ONLY a party to get some money out of it.
Oh my god I have been called out on my hypocracy!