I can certainly agree that both sides have resentments with the other, but the Israeli government has a lot more capacity to do harm than the Palestinians and they aren't restraining themselves much if at all. This has been true ever since 1948. I notice that you haven't responded to the chilling facts of what happened then, despite me quoting Wikipedia twice on this, but perhaps a third time will finally get you to. I can hope anyway. Here we go:
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The 1948 Nakba
The central facts of the Nakba during the 1948 Palestine war are not disputed.[34]
About 750,000 Palestinians--over 80% of the population in what would become the state of Israel--were expelled or fled from their homes and became refugees.[9] Eleven Arab urban neighborhoods and over 500 villages were destroyed or depopulated.[8] Thousands of Palestinians were killed in dozens of massacres.[35] About a dozen rapes of Palestinians by regular and irregular Israeli military forces have been documented, and more are suspected.[36] Israelis used psychological warfare tactics to frighten Palestinians into flight, including targeted violence, whispering campaigns, radio broadcasts, and loudspeaker vans.[37] Looting by Israeli soldiers and civilians of Palestinian homes, business, farms, artwork, books, and archives was widespread.[38]
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Full article:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nakba
Israel is once again doing what it did then, that being the wholesale slaughter of Palestinians. If you were to say that the Palestinians would do the same if they had the same weapons, I'd say you may be right. But they don't. There's a proverb popularized by Stan Lee in his Spider Man comic book that I think is very important here:
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With great power comes great responsibility"
The U.S. and Israel clearly have the power. The problem is that they're not acting very responsibly with it. They are essentially acting as if might is right. There's another proverb that is apt here, namely,
live by the sword, die by the sword. I think it can be said that the Jewish leadership in Israel learned the wrong lesson from those who tormented them in Europe, such as the Nazis, that being that with enough military power, you can temporarily suppress having to find diplomatic solutions with people who don't agree with your politics and religion. In the end, though, the other shoe always drops. Any nation or empire that leans too heavily on its military prowess is only teaching its opponents that military prowess is the only thing that they'll listen to. That never ends well for the nations and empires in question.