What I was thinking.
I found it boring.
Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction
KEY POINTS
The amount of porn a man watches is linked to ED. More porn equals more ED.
Heavy porn use is linked to dissatisfaction with real-world sex.
The constant fantasy/satisfaction cycle with heavy porn use leads to emotional and psychological disconnection with live partners.
In many males, heavy porn use leads to sexual dysfunction with their in-the-flesh partners.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...-age/202104/porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction
lI think this is a weird, mostly male problem, but I think it's a thing. Beautiful women pleasing your every sexual fantasy is their dream come true. Porn stars are never tired, they want only to make sure the man is pleased, and they never talk back. Guys think their wives/girlfriends should do the same. Do women watch porn? Hell yes. But they view it in a different manner. More sensual and erotic, less bang the living frack out of a couple women. It's also the strip club syndrome. Men think the women are thrilled to have them. They aren't. They want their money. But playing pretend GF is something that weirdly appeals to men, even when they know it's a complete fiction. Most people do not have a healthy sexual relationship. They don't talk about what they like, what they don't like, what their fantasies are, etc. It's our puritan background. I think that's probably the reason for this phenomenon. My two cents. I'm not a shrink, but I have been around the block a few times.