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Solitary said:
That can work well but it can also be very difficult.

Its hard to transition sometimes. Its also hard to tell when she wants the transition.

Those "subtle signals" you ladies send are apparently written in a code that only women understand.
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QFT!
 
TexasMeg said:
I think this is a case of men and women being so different. Their needs may be the same, but how they go about showing and interpreting them are so completely opposite. IMO both men and women need to start trying to think like the opposite sex in this situation.
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i agree with this. Even tho this particular convo always ends up centered on a womans needs.. men do have needs of there own.
 
Solitary said:
Or you can just keep looking until you find what she likes. (its usually not that hard to tell)

Who knows, she may not even know until you find it.
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This is also true and works. I was just throwing out the whole porn option as something in theory that could work for those with communication troubles.
 
Solitary said:
That can work well but it can also be very difficult.

Its hard to transition sometimes. Its also hard to tell when she wants the transition.

Those "subtle signals" you ladies send are apparently written in a code that only women understand.
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Watch the stupid movies that are called chick flicks.

Note that they have the guy waiting too long to move in.

Note they lean in to kiss and seem to take for ever to really lip lock.

Anticipation is the key. Men want it now and women want to be built into a frenzy. Men always have problems with this because they are ready before the woman is ready.

If you are not sure then hold back and whip her into a frenzy wondering just when the hell you are going to make that move. It will pay off.


Watermark take notes and you will be a happy man for the rest of your life.
 
Chapdog said:
i agree with this. Even tho this particular convo always ends up centered on a womans needs.. men do have needs of there own.
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Wait a minute? Most conversations about sex, end up revolving around women’s sexual needs? Well, even if this is so (I’m not sure as I think about it), it’s probably because the female orgasm seems to be a great mystery, but a male orgasm is pretty easy to come by. Not to mention that our entire society seems to revolve around male sexual need?
 
Chapdog said:
i agree with this. Even tho this particular convo always ends up centered on a womans needs.. men do have needs of there own.
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See that was my point. Yes we women have needs, and by getting inside the man's head and satisfying his needs, then ours will almost certainly be met. Men would be more than happy to give us what we desire then ;)
 
Darla said:
Wait a minute? Most conversations about sex, end up revolving around women’s sexual needs? Well, even if this is so (I’m not sure as I think about it), it’s probably because the female orgasm seems to be a great mystery, but a male orgasm is pretty easy to come by. Not to mention that our entire society seems to revolve around male sexual need?
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A mystery ? Not for women with me.
Ladies always first.
 
TexasMeg said:
See that was my point. Yes we women have needs, and by getting inside the man's head and satisfying his needs, then ours will almost certainly be met. Men would be more than happy to give us what we desire then ;)
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If you can find a situation like that where both parties involved want and can please the other then you truly are one of the lucky ones I think ;)
 
Chapdog said:
i agree with this. Even tho this particular convo always ends up centered on a womans needs.. men do have needs of there own.
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Yes we do. But then, along with the men who think (as Darla so aptly put it) what they see in a porn movie is what women want, there are women who think that all they have to do is allow the men to have sex with them and they have done their part.

Lousy lovers on both sides.
 
Solitary said:
Yes we do. But then, along with the men who think (as Darla so aptly put it) what they see in a porn movie is what women want, there are women who think that all they have to do is allow the men to have sex with them and they have done their part.

Lousy lovers on both sides.
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makes sense. all in the pursuit of learning here.
 
Solitary said:
Yes we do. But then, along with the men who think (as Darla so aptly put it) what they see in a porn movie is what women want, there are women who think that all they have to do is allow the men to have sex with them and they have done their part.

Lousy lovers on both sides.
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communication and selflessness fixes this.
 
TexasMeg said:
See that was my point. Yes we women have needs, and by getting inside the man's head and satisfying his needs, then ours will almost certainly be met. Men would be more than happy to give us what we desire then ;)
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I think this goes back to having actual communication lines about sex.

Wouldn't that be a novel way to approach it?


Without that, its impossible to be sure. Because all women are different. You have only to look back over this thread and see that Darla and Desh have very different ideas about what works.
 
uscitizen said:
Actually talk about sex ? You will burn in hell for that !
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Thats the problem, I think. We have been so sexually repressed for so many centuries that we are still bound by some of those old rules and taboos.
 
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