Homophobic? Maybe You’re Gay

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wiseones2cents said:
Not from hot women they cant and some guys are super shy and thus lack those social skills.

I personally believe that these are the things that would land YOU in bed. Not all women think like you. SOme women dont care if the guy is a pig(talks dirty), some women dont care whether he is dating material.

A very good conversationalist can impress a women. Unless he talks too much. Women like to do most of the talking. And a smart man would know that.lol Though some guys that have the personality of a door knob can still get laid if they are super attractive.

I think the gift of gab is even more important then looks to a degree. If you have two guys in a room an 8/10 and a 10/10? If the 8 knows how to talk, he will get the girl every time.

I think the number one key to getting laid is confidence and knowing what to say and when to say it and what to do and when to do it and look for signals. Not all women are the same. Therefore different tactics must be employed for different kind of women.
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I don't think women like to do most of the talking.
 
Darla said:
I meant that in the context of what society calls good looking, which is conventional good looks. It's easy to picture what someone might mean when a woman is described as 'conventionally attractive". Maybe it is more difficult with a man, I'm not sure.

Anyway, for men IMO, conventional good looks have little if anything to do with whether he is sexy. I feel they have little to do with how much sex he gets for this reason. Being not-creepy is also a big factor. I'd be really interested if a man we know here would just come out and say "I can't get laid". I can almost guarantee they're giving off a creepy vibe, and that's not terminal if he can face up to it and look to change it. I mean, you know, unless he is giving off a creepy vibe because he's a serial killer or a rapist. Then that would be terminal.
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I know what you meant, and agreed, hence my statement.
 
what are we exactly arguing about here? Some deep ulterior motive for wanting easy no strings attached sex with no hassle? That in doing so one has to hate women or something? lol. no.
 
Thomas Jefferson said:
Yes, most were pretty hot, or at the very least fair, no, no, and no. Being on a military pay does not afford ladies. I'm just a charming mother fucker.
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Nah.... Highly unlikely. You must have decent looks and or body OR money. You have to at the very least be a good dresser(you need coin for that too) if you are ugly to get HOT women.

The only other thing is that if you are an amazing lover? All you need is to sleep with one girl that spreads the message out and then you can sleep with more quality women. Also If your amazing in bed and know it, and have confidence, you will attract more women. Again. It is all about the confidence. That is what makes you a "charming mofo.".lol
 
some guys have lots of money to burn. Maybe they are in a new city, chilling and hanging out in their hotel room, dont really want to go anywhere, and decide to have an escort come up. Simple as that.
 
Darla said:
I don't think women like to do most of the talking.
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that said, driving around some shitty street looking for the crackwhore ugly prostitutes is nasty. If you are gonna prostitute it up you gotta do it high class, elliot spitzer style.
 
The Owl in Now said:
what are we exactly arguing about here? Some deep ulterior motive for wanting easy no strings attached sex with no hassle? That in doing so one has some has to hate women or something? lol. no.
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No. What you are describing is casual sex. WOmen want that too. I believe that if we could remove the threat of violence and rape we would find that as many women want casual sex, hookups so to speak, as men.

We are discussing buying prostitutes. Men who do that by and large do hate women, yes.
 
Darla said:
I don't think women like to do most of the talking.
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I find they do, and have had many women tell me that guys bore the heck out of them when they talk too much. Especially if they are just waiting for him to bust a move.lol

Anyways. We have gone WAY off topic. The point is not everyone is gay.lol
 
Darla said:
No. What you are describing is casual sex. WOmen want that too. I believe that if we could remove the threat of violence and rape we would find that as many women want casual sex, hookups so to speak, as men.
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This is true. If women weren't labelled sluts they would be doing alot more rounds.lol

We are discussing buying prostitutes. Men who do that by and large do hate women, yes.
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LOL! You couldn't be more wrong.lol
 
wiseones2cents said:
Nah.... Highly unlikely. You must have decent looks and or body OR money. You have to at the very least be a good dresser(you need coin for that too) if you are ugly to get HOT women.

The only other thing is that if you are an amazing lover? All you need is to sleep with one girl that spreads the message out and then you can sleep with more quality women. Also If your amazing in bed and know it, and have confidence, you will attract more women. Again. It is all about the confidence. That is what makes you a "charming mofo.".lol
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This is all BS (other than the confidence observation, which, duh) You are not the final authority, trust me. You obviously think you are, but I really find most of what you have said to be way off base from my own personal experience and observations.
 
wiseones2cents said:
I find they do, and have had many women tell me that guys bore the heck out of them when they talk too much. Especially if they are just waiting for him to bust a move.lol

Anyways. We have gone WAY off topic. The point is not everyone is gay.lol
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Anyone who talks only about themselves on and on, is a bore. That's not gender specific. But a guy who only asks you questions and gets you to talk, is so obvious as to be laughable. Nah, that won't work. Unless...do you only hit on really stupid women?
 
wiseones2cents said:
This is true. If women weren't labelled sluts they would be doing alot more rounds.lol



LOL! You couldn't be more wrong.lol
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It's partly about being labeled a slut, but I believe the threat of violence is the bigger fear. Violence and rape. I don't think men ever go home with a woman they met in the bar, and have the thought somewhere in the back of their heads that they could end the night tied to a bed being tortured and then murdered. Or that they may consent to one or more sex acts, only to have another sex act they would not consent to, forced upon them. (and you can bet in that scenario there is no possible way of pressing charges) That's kind of a man thing. And it does loom large in decisions about casual sexual encounters.
 
Darla said:
Oh it's the big bottom or top debate that passes for giggles yurt. Gays are either the man or the women. This means they either are passive and get f'd, or they're active and they f*ck. Gays are totally unlike heteros and therefore they have no complexity to their sexuality. They are either f'ers or f*ckees. They never change it up. They cannot, ever, be both.

Come to think of it, maybe this is how homophobes view hetero sex too. Who knows.

So tiring.
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