Homophobic? Maybe You’re Gay

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Darla said:
The fact that the majority of men using prostitutes are not using high end escort services, for whatever reason, lays to waste your entire theory that men use prostitutes in order to have sex with smoking hot women. It just does.
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i think it's just more of a matter of laziness. Sometimes, instead of wanting to go to the store, by some food, and go home and stop chopping, frying, baking a meal, you just want to go to tacobell and grab a quick bite. And instead of dressing nice, going out to some social scene, meeting people, having convos, etc, you just want the sex and nothing else. I dont think it's correlated with hate, just that you want sex without the hassle.
 
Darla said:
Definitely hold them in contempt, yes. I believe that in order to purchase another human being you must dehumanize them and hold them in contempt. I think it's pretty blatant actually.
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why are you so adverse to using the same adjective?
 
darla I would like to extrapolate this scale of hate you've got going here. What about men going to strip clubs?
 
The Owl in Now said:
i think it's just more of a matter of laziness. Sometimes, instead of wanting to go to the store, by some food, and go home and stop chopping, frying, baking a meal, you just want to go to tacobell and grab a quick bite. And instead of dressing nice, going out to some social scene, meeting people, having convos, etc, you just want the sex and nothing else. I dont think it's correlated with hate, just that you want sex without the hassle.
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That's called masturbation Grind. There's no shame in just staying home, getting high with Jack, and taking care of business yourself while your sister is out on a date, as Billy Joel famously wrote.
 
Darla said:
Anyone who talks only about themselves on and on, is a bore. That's not gender specific. But a guy who only asks you questions and gets you to talk, is so obvious as to be laughable. Nah, that won't work. Unless...do you only hit on really stupid women?
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Is so obviously what? Even when I'm asked a question, I will be short and sweet and always turn the conversation back to her. To prevent me from rambling or putting my foot in my mouth. lol Hey it works for me!

Then you agree, if a guy talks too much it is a turn off. Unless the girl is super shy and she herself lacks conversational skills, and would like the guy to carry most of the conversation so she doesn't feel awkward. I personally am more action then talk.lol

I've had success on all kinds of different women from smart to dumb.

Again. The point is that men who employ hookers are NOT woman haters. And not all people are gay. In fact only a small majority are gay and many of them were a result of child abuse. Those are the facts.
 
The Owl in Now said:
darla I would like to extrapolate this scale of hate you've got going here. What about men going to strip clubs?
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I don't really know. That's a good question. I used to work with these two men who hit the "Gentleman's club" down the block like on a weekly basis. They never seemed to hate me, but they did hate their wives. Seriously. So who knows.
 
Darla said:
That's called masturbation Grind. There's no shame in just staying home, getting high with Jack, and taking care of business yourself while your sister is out on a date, as Billy Joel famously wrote.
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yup and some guys want the enhanced version of that.
 
Darla said:
I don't really know. That's a good question. I used to work with these two men who hit the "Gentleman's club" down the block like on a weekly basis. They never seemed to hate me, but they did hate their wives. Seriously. So who knows.
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Cause I kinda see it as the same thing, just scaled down. You are going to pay for the time of a woman.
 
Darla said:
The fact that the majority of men using prostitutes are not using high end escort services, for whatever reason, lays to waste your entire theory that men use prostitutes in order to have sex with smoking hot women. It just does.
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BECAUSE THEY CANT AFFORD IT!! If you could afford a smoking woman, would you rather sleep with a girl that looks like her face got run over by a truck? Come on!
 
The Owl in Now said:
why are you so adverse to using the same adjective?
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There's a long explanation behind that. It's pretty involved. I'll try and make it short and to the point:

Men and women are not equal in our society, particularly in regards to sexual freedom. Therefore, when a woman say goes to a male strip club, is she going for the same reasons men generally go? Or is she going because that is a socially acceptable way for a woman to express sexual aggression? Female sexual aggression is severely frowned upon in our culture. Except for a very few spaces.
 
wiseones2cents said:
BECAUSE THEY CANT AFFORD IT!! If you could afford a smoking woman, would you rather sleep with a girl that looks like her face got run over by a truck? Come on!
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It doesnt' matter why. The men who are paying for prostitutes who are less than smoking hot (the majority of them), are obviously not using prostitutes to have sex with smoking hot women. They're using prostitutes to have sex with any woman.
 
I need to make a bucket list of things to do that would piss of darla O_o

1. Get a high class escort
2. Join the NRA
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10. some other things
 
Darla said:
There's a long explanation behind that. It's pretty involved. I'll try and make it short and to the point:

Men and women are not equal in our society, particularly in regards to sexual freedom. Therefore, when a woman say goes to a male strip club, is she going for the same reasons men generally go? Or is she going because that is a socially acceptable way for a woman to express sexual aggression? Female sexual aggression is severely frowned upon in our culture. Except for a very few spaces.
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I have a lot of things to say to this but it would take too much time. So realize I'm not ignoring it, I just don't have the patience.
 
The Owl in Now said:
I need to make a bucket list of things to do that would piss of darla O_o

1. Get a high class escort
2. Join the NRA
....
10. some other things
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It wouldn't piss me off. I'd generally rather you used a high priced escort than a street hooker. I feel the former have far more agency. I feel buying a street prostitute is straight up exploitation of someone who has got to be pretty desperate. I mean, it's really a gross thing to do.
 
Darla said:
Exactly. To prevent you from revealing anything about yourself. Major red flag.
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LOL No that is not it at all. I think women like the mysterious side of me. Keeps them intrigued.lol

And if she is asking about something from my past. Rather then bring up negative stuff and sound negative? I lie and always project a positive image and keep it short. No I've never been in a bad relationship.lol Start taking notes boys.lol

If you project a negative image about yourself they might perceive you as negative. You must always project a positive image towards women. If you keep talking about how horrible your ex was and that she was a tramp, she might see you as talking about her in that manner if you guys were to hook up and break up. Therefore you will gain no redflags from a true player. :)

OK. Try to stay on subject. Now I will only talk about your notion that men hate prostitutes or that all people are gay.lol
 
wiseones2cents said:
LOL No that is not it at all. I think women like the mysterious side of me. Keeps them intrigued.lol

And if she is asking about something from my past. Rather then bring up negative stuff and sound negative? I lie and always project a positive image and keep it short. No I've never been in a bad relationship.lol Start taking notes boys.lol

If you project a negative image about yourself they might perceive you as negative. You must always project a positive image towards women. If you keep talking about how horrible your ex was and that she was a tramp, she might see you as talking about her in that manner if you guys were to hook up and break up. Therefore you will gain no redflags from a true player. :)

OK. Try to stay on subject. Now I will only talk about your notion that men hate prostitutes or that all people are gay.lol
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That's correct. THe minute a man refers to his ex, especially if she is his ex wife and mother of his children, as a whore, a c-word, a monster, etc, that is it. Say goodnight baby, it's just you and your hand tonight!

Your post just verified exactly what I said! YOu want to keep this information from the woman you are trying to bed. This is exactly why when a man won't talk about himself and tries to act so fascinated by me and only wants to talk about me, it's a red flag for me. You haven't changed my mind wise, you've just confirmed what I always thought!
 
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