DtM is a hypocrite and a liar....and that's his good features.
IMO, a man shouldn't have a say in whether a woman to whom he isn't married should be forced to carry his baby. If they are married, that's a conundrum. Did both agree to the child? Are there health reasons on why the woman shouldn't carry the baby? Are they splitting up?
If an unmarried woman decides to carry a man's child and the man is against it, that's also a conundrum. Did she tell him as soon as she found out? Did he protest and opt to split abortion costs, if not pay for all of it if she couldn't? There is an element of unfairness that a woman conceives, hides it from the man and then sues him for child support.