Hater, while I feel sorry that you are not the brightest bulb on your family tree, it's only honest of me to point out you are wrong again.
Having witnessed what works and what doesn't with friends and family, I'm a big fan of tough love...although the link below favors "setting boundries". IMO, they are close enough to be the same. In short, your family would benefit you more by stopping letting you be a mooch. They should kick you out while emphasizing their love for you.
Tough love is frequently suggested to help someone with an addiction, but it can be very harmful and can even lead to relapsing into addictions.
www.verywellmind.com
Tough Love vs. Setting Boundaries
Instead of tough love, healthy boundaries are often a more effective and sustainable solution. Your boundaries are the limits to what you are willing to accept in a relationship.4
Healthy boundaries should be clearly communicated. It is also essential to maintain these boundaries by following through with consequences. Examples of boundaries for dealing with addiction include:
- Not allowing drugs or alcohol in your home
- Not giving another person money to pay for drugs or alcohol
- Prohibiting driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol
- Refusing to make excuses for another person's actions
Explain these boundaries to the individual. Using "I feel" statements can help express your feelings without being confrontational or accusatory.