OK, so what happened in this thread was that I posted a video of a woman explaining the anger that resulted in mass protests against an institutionally racist system. Protests that did include looting and destruction.
You watched some -but not all- of the video, got triggered at the mention of PUSH, and completely shut yourself down after that.
Then, you invoked your "wife" (that I'm not convinced is real) and the discrimination she faces that somehow, someway means you understand what she faces more than the black woman in the video understands and reflects on what she faces herself.
Then, I called you out on that and you backed away from it, saying you weren't speaking for your wife, even though that is exactly what you were doing. Usurping whatever experiences she had as some sort of second-hand badge of honor for you. So you made everything your wife faces about you. That's what you did when you invoked her in this thread. That because your wife faces discrimination, that means you completely and totally understand that discrimination she faces because you -GASP- saw it!
Well, I see discrimination all the time too, but the difference between us is that I give those discriminated against the platform to air their grievances, whereas you rob them of that platform to posture their grievances as yours.
That's fucking shitty and if my spouse did that to me, I'd fucking divorce them for it.