Georgia mom charged after [11 y.o.] son walks alone less than a mile from home

Haha! Let me ask, did you preference what you told them that this was S.F.? Or did they think is was some regular suburb?

I have a sister in law with two sons that work at Google (really sharp kids) but she would not even let them ride BART alone while in high school. She subscribed to the “keep them alive to 18” to the extreme.

So I get the pushback on an 8 year girl walking alone in S.F. I respect that. I’m still a believer in that data that says mental health issues are related to helicopter parenting and lack of free play.
Yeah maybe find a way to "watch" her while she is having free play time. Sort of like my kid riding his bike alone to his friend's house while still being watched.

BTW I don't think I mentioned that you live in SF. I live in one of the top cities in North Texas in a very good neighborhood.
 
Yeah maybe find a way to "watch" her while she is having free play time. Sort of like my kid riding his bike alone to his friend's house while still being watched.

BTW I don't think I mentioned that you live in SF. I live in one of the top cities in North Texas in a very good neighborhood.
Did you ever watch Family Ties? (I loved Alex P. Keaton) If yes, you may remember the episode where on his 18th b-day he defied his Mom and went to West Virginia to celebrate with a couple of friends. They then had a big argument in their kitchen after the fact.

Go to the 2:22 mark and it's about what you described above about "watching" her.

 
While there has to be a certain amount of free play for kids...oportunities for them to make decisions for themselves and learn to watch out for themselves, I am probably going to side with your wife on the going to the park thing. We live in scary times.

I remember when I was a kid we would venture into the woods and swim in the creeks around here on a regular basis. I would either walk or ride my bike and be a few miles from home on any given day. I couldn't imagine allowing a kid of 9 or so to go the places I went and do the things that I did.

Even in our small community we have people who have moved in, live at the RV park (what's the deal with all these RV parks showing up in every small community and town anyway?) ...we don't know who they are. If the law gets called to come here it is usually dealing with something stemming from that place.

All of that said, though, we still have to find places and opportunities where chances for harm are minimized and turn our kids loose to make decisions for themselves. I am just going to monitor them a bit more closely than I was monitored.
LR have you recently changed your political affiliation to moderate Republican?
 
LR have you recently changed your political affiliation to moderate Republican?
Yes sir. Between the Primary and General election. I’ve been planning to do it for 2 years because I can’t vote for our County office candidates because they are all Republicans so the election is decided in the Primary.

Besides, it is obvious that old Blue Dogs like myself aren’t welcome in the Democratic Party anymore, even around here.

That said, we’ve got a Republican Secretary of Education we’ll donate to Washington if you’ll make him leave the state. 😉
 
it totally is Dem hatred..

Dems hate how their cities suck, so they pretend everywhere sucks as bad, when it doesn't.
It does not get any more Republican than this all white area of Georgia...

Meanwhile in NYC, 10 year olds and even younger regularly ride the subways to school without adult supervision. It is considered normal and safe.
 
It does not get any more Republican than this all white area of Georgia...

Meanwhile in NYC, 10 year olds and even younger regularly ride the subways to school without adult supervision. It is considered normal and safe.
you're a bad parent.
 
you would let your child go on the subway in New York alone in this day and age.
I do not even live in NYC, but there are plenty of people who do live in NYC who have their children go to and from school on the subway. Those kids are almost never harmed. It is a lot safer in NYC than out in the middle of nowhere.

I guess you believe that all those children missing in rural areas were not murdered, because their bodies were never found.
 
I do not even live in NYC, but there are plenty of people who do live in NYC who have their children go to and from school on the subway. Those kids are almost never harmed. It is a lot safer in NYC than out in the middle of nowhere.

I guess you believe that all those children missing in rural areas were not murdered, because their bodies were never found.
those are bad parents.
 
It does not get any more Republican than this all white area of Georgia...

Meanwhile in NYC, 10 year olds and even younger regularly ride the subways to school without adult supervision. It is considered normal and safe.
Guno (posting ITT), a NYC native, said he rode the subway alone as kid in the '50's and '60's claims it's different today (not in a good way). So no, most don't think it normal and safe.

In fact a few years back a Mom who supports Free Range Play let her nine year old son ride the subway alone and got voted Worst Mom in America for doing so.

Here's her story:

 
I do not even live in NYC, but there are plenty of people who do live in NYC who have their children go to and from school on the subway. Those kids are almost never harmed. It is a lot safer in NYC than out in the middle of nowhere.

I guess you believe that all those children missing in rural areas were not murdered, because their bodies were never found.
Yup.... just like my kids riding their bikes and walking a mile to Elementary School, it was good for them.
 
Yup.... just like my kids riding their bikes and walking a mile to Elementary School, it was good for them.
I walked to school, which was probably more dangerous, because it was the suburbs and there were fewer people around to help me.
 
I walked to school, which was probably more dangerous, because it was the suburbs and there were fewer people around to help me.
My daughter crashed her bike once, and scraped her arm... a very kind lady came out of a house and helped her, then called me. I think she felt I was negligent, but it all worked out fine. She doesn't even have a scar.
 
Guno (posting ITT), a NYC native, said he rode the subway alone as kid in the '50's and '60's claims it's different today (not in a good way). So no, most don't think it normal and safe.

In fact a few years back a Mom who supports Free Range Play let her nine year old son ride the subway alone and got voted Worst Mom in America for doing so.

Here's her story:

Are you comparing riding a NYC subway with walking a mile through a middle-class suburban neighborhood?
 
Kids have faced some danger since time began. Helicoptering kids is another danger. Kids have to grow up and be independent. Kids have cell phones. They keep in touch with parents if the want to.
 
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