If you're a woman, your values are probably mostly stupid

ThatOwlWoman said:
Not to mention also educational. ;)
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/

check this out.

dutch uncle is a pick meisha.

So, what is a Pickmeisha? A woman consumed with landing a man, or if she has one, she's consumed with making excuses for his bad behavior because he is a man. Boys will be boys. But worst of all, she's a woman who will put other women down to “prove herself” worthy of the patriarchy.

dutch uncle is the first trans pickmeisha.
 
Matt Dillon said:
My guess it the Old Lady pooferized his bathroom, complete with shag piss-catcher rug around the toilet and poofy toilet seat.

I had a fight about that before..Almost $150 for useless bathroom decorations that add to the laundy.
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I’m sure she feels the same way about your “garage” or other man things.
 
ThatOwlWoman said:
Passive listening is actually taught in couples counseling.
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I’ve known four couples that went to counseling. Two got divorced one hates each other to this day - no conversation just argue and back bite, the other couple live separate lives under the same roof, don’t even talk to each other. I will never do that.
 
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ThatOwlWoman said:
Aren't you guys fairly young though? Younger women tend to speak up and say what's on their minds. We older (50s and up) women were taught that it isn't "nice" to be confrontational, so some of us beat around the bush and have trouble getting down to the real issues -- which are almost always your guys' fault. lol

Passive listening is actually taught in couples counseling.
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I’m 65 she is 49. We met after my wife died of cancer. We’ve only been married for four years but I feel like I’ve known her forever. I never understood finding ‘your person’ until I met her. My willingness to play that role when we argue is worth every second. Honestly I stumbled on that idea when I realized how she fought. I wasn’t going to change it so I adapted. There is no such thing as a perfect person. Just one who is perfect for you. I consider myself lucky to have found mine. I’m in love like a teenager every single day. Age/maturity have everything to do with it.
 
anonymoose said:
I’ve known four couples that went to counseling. Two got divorced one hates each other to this day - no conversation just argue and back bite, the other couple live separate lives under the same roof, don’t even talk to each other. I will never do that.
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Life is way too short for that.
 
anonymoose said:
I've heard that strategy but I've also heard to stand your ground or they loose respect. :dunno:
That incident I the posted to AHZ was kinda the last straw for me. I even put it in a dated note with on my phone to remember.
Once she starts a completely, totally irrational argument I'll say something like, "Here we go again. Arguing over NOTHING." That usually stops it.
If not it depends how I feel. If I don't feel like arguing I leave. Could be a walk, maybe get in the car , go hit golf balls, whatever.
At times I'll stand my ground but I'm kinda done with being passive and listening when it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. If 100 bystanders hear the argument I described to AHZ, I'd have to estimate conservatively that 100 of them would take my side.
I have an old friend in Baton Rouge I keep in touch with. We think our wives are clones of each other. Some of our irrational arguments are over almost the exact same stuff.
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Either the two of you are idiots who chose stupid insane women


Or


The both of you are so fucking head fucked you have no idea how to have a truly intimate relationship



An argument is never about nothing


You are too fucking stupid to suss out what the relationship problem is


You are a failure as a husband
 
AssHatZombie said:
"if mama ain't happy, nobody's happy" -- folk wisdom

this is so true we all laugh.

and it's over like, the floor, or something ocd.

or empty status signalling no matter how much it puts your future in jeopardy.

that.
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There's a Bible verse about that. Something about being in the house with a contentious woman.

"It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house."

https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/Proverbs/21/type/kjv
 
Matt Dillon said:
There's a Bible verse about that. Something about being in the house with a contentious woman.

"It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house."

https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/Proverbs/21/type/kjv
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Proverbs 21:19
Better to live in the desert than with a contentious and ill-tempered wife.

Proverbs 25:24
Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.
 
anonymoose said:
I've heard that strategy but I've also heard to stand your ground or they loose respect. :dunno:
That incident I the posted to AHZ was kinda the last straw for me. I even put it in a dated note with on my phone to remember.
Once she starts a completely, totally irrational argument I'll say something like, "Here we go again. Arguing over NOTHING." That usually stops it.
If not it depends how I feel. If I don't feel like arguing I leave. Could be a walk, maybe get in the car , go hit golf balls, whatever.
At times I'll stand my ground but I'm kinda done with being passive and listening when it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. If 100 bystanders hear the argument I described to AHZ, I'd have to estimate conservatively that 100 of them would take my side.
I have an old friend in Baton Rouge I keep in touch with. We think our wives are clones of each other. Some of our irrational arguments are over almost the exact same stuff.
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#1 strategy: Get out of sight and earshot for some hours. :D

High probability it's all over by the time you return.

It's a fact that every now and then, the woman in your life is going to wake up, look at you sideways, and say to herself: "I'm gonna ruin his day."

All women do it, no matter how good they are.

So, my strategy is to smile, say "Have a nice day!" and walk out the door and go do something.

Do not return until afternoon at least. By then they're glad to see you and it's like nothing ever happened. (most of the time)
 
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