Last question first:
Answer: YOU. You really need to do some thinking here.
You guess there is a god (and that you know the nature of that god, what pleases it and what offends it.) Atheists (at least some of them) guess there are no gods.
NEITHER of you know if there are gods or not...and neither of you seem willing to acknowledge that you are merely blindly guessing the way you are guessing.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with guessing on the question...and one of you is correct. Either there is at least one god...or there are none.
But you were scoffing at something by posting, "This could be viewed, by some, as a logical disconnect. Arguing about the nature of a God they say they don't believe in is proof that they DO believe. Otherwise, why argue about?"
That is AN ABSURDITY.
There is no logic there. It is something you just wrote because you have a keyboard at your disposal.
And I called that to your attention.