Hey, Yurt. Please read this as slowly as necessary until you can actually comprehend what I am writing here. A crime is a crime even if it isn't against our rules. I'd suggest you follow the law because if a threat is deemed real you'll be reported to the authorities. At that point worrying about whether I'd ban you is just rhetoric because you feel butt hurt.
Telling somebody they have a fetish isn't against the law, nor against the rules here, even if you want to cry all night long about it, nor is it the same as illegally threatening somebody. My guess is you, as somebody whose job it is to understand that, fully understand the difference.
Assume that laws are still laws even while posting on the interwebs and you'll do fine. I think you can handle it.