If a woman was too over the top, we usually did not let her in. She would make other women, and even men feel uncomfortable.
So, you worked at a gay bar...
We also tried to avoid letting men in tank tops and worse yet wife beaters into the clubs. They all thought they looked great, but really they just looked low class. Seriously, wear a shirt with buttons. You do not even need to do all the buttons, but have the buttons.
I would never wear a tank top to a club. I stated that in those situations a fitted shirt would be worn.
But you deliberately avoided the point, when people dress in certain ways, they do so for attention, particularly women.
You are all over the map.
Not at all. Once the "me too" hypocrisy started, we morphed into a prude society of absurd sexual repression. Unless it's gay - sex is forbidden. Giai forbid a woman appear topless in a film or on TV in 2023. We went from "Game of Thrones" to "House of Prudes" in record time. "The Witcher" imposed a strict dress code starting in season 2 (filmed in 2020).
No, the fascist left is the most prudish group since the dark ages. Unless it's gay - then it's okay. But for normal, healthy sex? The left will NOT permit it to be seen or discussed.