My Nephew, Jay

Annie

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Well few of you really know me, granted, through my own fault. The past few years have been difficult family wise, my mom died in 2004, my dad last August. The day after his funeral, we found out my nephew had a brain tumor. Needless to say, this was the worst of all, he was 24.

If you can, any amount would be great.

Many of you know and have written mucho encouragements to me about my nephew, Jay, who was diagnosed with a brain tumor a few weeks before his wedding. He's my brother's only son and my godchild.

He graduated summa cum laude from the university with a degree in law enforcement. He was offered a position with the FBI, but wanted to be a 'regular' police officer, like his father. He landed a job about 6 months later, but unbeknownst to any of us, he was already feeling the effects of the tumor, but didn't say anything. He 'resigned' a week out of the academy. He had a good job that he'd been working with while applying for police departments, TRW identity theft profiling. I was with my brother when he found out about the tumor, the day after my dad's funeral. Needless to say, it was shock after shock.

Anyhow, Sunday is a walk for brain tumor research. If anyone has a few sheckles to donate, it would be highly appreciated:

http://stridetosavelives.kintera.org

His team is J's Crew, already in 1st place, but with less that $4k. Here's his letter to friends and family:

As you all are aware, it has been a year packed with both excitement and sadness. Angela and I had our wonderful wedding together where we got to share our love and commit our faith for the rest of our lives, but of course that event did not come along as easily as we hoped it would.

I started to feel symptoms of pain in my right hand that I thought came from nerve damage from a very bad ice fall in about January 2007. Several months later, I started to have trouble walking on my right foot. In August 2007, I finally told Angela and my loved ones that I believed I was losing vision in my right peripheral. That was when I scheduled my first appointment with my doctor and got a CT scan. The next day he immediately called me and told me the life altering news that I had a brain tumor. There was no time to waste, no time to think about the future because I had my surgery on September 6, 2007. Luckily, other than a couple permanent scars and some recoverable speech problems, everything went well and I was able to get out of the hospital quickly enough to make it to my wedding on September 22, 2007.

For my quick recovery from surgery, I must thank my wonderful Neurosurgeons and rehabilitation therapists, but I must also thank the people involved with Neuroresearch. The Chicago Institute of Neurosurgery and Neuroresearch, of CINN, is dedicated to making a difference in the lives of people afflicted with brain tumors. The CINN foundation is involved with neurological research, education and community outreach.

The CINN Foundation is hosting its 4th Annual Stride to Save Lives two-mile walk for brain tumor reseach on Sunday, June 8, 2008. Angela and I have decided to join the Stride to Save Lives and have formed our own team. We want every individual that has to deal with this hardship to have the best research available. To see our website go to http://stridetosavelives.kintera.org and click on Sponsor Participant and type in Jay Doherty.

That is what brings me to my point of writing this letter. We are asking for a donation for the Stride to Save Lives of any amount you can give. Brain tumors affect about 16,000 people a year and last year I was one of those few. If it weren't for the Neurosurgeons and the Neuroresearch, I don't know where I'd be. So, if you can donate, please help others like people helped me.

Thank you for your generous donation and support!

Jay & Angela Doherty

Credit cards taken at site. Make checks payable to:

The CINN Foundation
 
My sincerest sympathies to your family. My wife and I will make a donation.
 
My sincerest sympathies to your family. My wife and I will make a donation.

Thank you. I've heard from several. If you are in Chicago area and can walk 2 miles, pm me. We're planning a big after walk meet up, maybe ESPN, maybe somewhere else. The important thing is getting the message out.
 
Sorry, I work in Atlanta and live in eastern Alabama.

But I do hope that treatment helps and that your nephew lives a long and full life.
 
Sorry, I work in Atlanta and live in eastern Alabama.

But I do hope that treatment helps and that your nephew lives a long and full life.

Well I thank you very much. I think when it comes to personal, there are little differences between conservatives and liberals, we all want to help. Bottom line, Americans are joiners and believers. We give and hope. Bless you all.
 
Sorry, I work in Atlanta and live in eastern Alabama.

But I do hope that treatment helps and that your nephew lives a long and full life.
Man, that must be a hell of a commute.

P.S. I'll get to the site for a contribution, too.
 
Man, that must be a hell of a commute.

P.S. I'll get to the site for a contribution, too.

Thank you! It's been quite a trial. He makes it sound easier than it's been. Our family is forever grateful to TRW for allowing Jay to work his way back. They gave him his former position in late January, we know they need to have someone back him, they've never said a word. Medical has been completely covered. We are also more grateful than can ever be said to Loyola University Medical Center and Northwestern that referred him to Loyola. This was in a period of 12 hours, when a community hospital told him there was 'no hope.'

Needless to say, our family will walk, run, bike and give to numerous organizations.
 
Sorry about the tragedies in the family, Kathianne. 1998-2000 were similar for me, and we lost a number of family members, but no one as young as 24.

Speaking of Loyola, Topspin is an alumnus of Loyola (MBA), and as we all know, is loaded with cash. Perhaps someone can appeal to his love of colors by dropping him a line anout Loyola Med. I know most of his loyalty goes to LSU, but you never know...
 
Sorry about the tragedies in the family, Kathianne. 1998-2000 were similar for me, and we lost a number of family members, but no one as young as 24.

Speaking of Loyola, Topspin is an alumnus of Loyola (MBA), and as we all know, is loaded with cash. Perhaps someone can appeal to his love of colors by dropping him a line anout Loyola Med. I know most of his loyalty goes to LSU, but you never know...

Thanks for the encouragement. From what I've seen of Topspin, he'd help. Actually I think most here, that could, would. I don't think sides of the aisle has anything to do with heart, from either side.

I for one, had only sadness to hear of Ted Kennedy's trials. I wish him the best and am happy he can afford the best. I send my prayers for him.
 
Yeah, its also nice to see that Bill Clinton recovered from his heart issues, and was able to hit the campaign trail and get into screaming matches with Obama supporters with no ill effects on his health. That, and have impressionable younger women still going ga-ga over him. I prayed for him, and it seems to have paid off.

I didn't have a lot of access to media during Kennedy's scare, so it was pretty much over by the time I heard...
 
Yeah, its also nice to see that Bill Clinton recovered from his heart issues, and was able to hit the campaign trail and get into screaming matches with Obama supporters with no ill effects on his health. That, and have impressionable younger women still going ga-ga over him. I prayed for him, and it seems to have paid off.

I didn't have a lot of access to media during Kennedy's scare, so it was pretty much over by the time I heard...

Now that made me laugh! Good health to Bill and may the interns be protected. ;)
 
Man, that must be a hell of a commute.

P.S. I'll get to the site for a contribution, too.

Its a lousy commute monday mornings and friday afternoons. The nights in between are spent in a hotel. But its the difference between a crap job in a cabinet plant and a comfortable living in a career I enjoy. The travel is the best part, imo.

I can sympathize with the losses of parents. My Mom died in '97 and my Dad in'04. There are still days that my first thought is to call Mom or tell Dad something funny that happened. Never enough time and its always too soon.
 
Thank you all for the words and contributions. Hopefully we'll not be rained upon tomorrow morning. The whole clan will be there, we should be done with the 'walk' before 10:30, then they have a 'barbque'. We're thinking of heading over to ESPN for a partay! Thanks again.
 
Wow, Kathianne. I'm sorry to hear about your nephew, but its great that he's made such an awesome recovery. Politics aside, my heart goes out to your family.
 
Wow, Kathianne. I'm sorry to hear about your nephew, but its great that he's made such an awesome recovery. Politics aside, my heart goes out to your family.

Well it was a great time! Over 600 walked, more than 800 made donations. They were pleased with the outcome. Next year will be even better. My nephew's team came in 3rd overall, 1st in exceeding goals. He said in the microphone, "Well I had the surgery and got married just last September, just wait when I have a whole year without rehab to get ready!" ;) (We're a family of over achievers.)

The weather was fine for the race and bar-b-que afterwards. They had a live salsa band, with the lake as a backdrop. The downpour started when we were in the parking lot, deciding where to go next. The rain made that decision, off to ESPN for appetizers and drinks. We relaxed for an hour and a half or so, watching the Yankees v KC and Euro Soccer. Got outside and it was great weather again, so we all walked down to the Blues Festival for a couple hours. I just got home.

Good times, good times. Thanks for all the nice words and the donations.
 
It sounds like you guys had an empowering day today. I'm actually happy for you.
 
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