This is how I see it, Darla. Some women are bitches and 'cunts' just like some men are bastards and pricks. It has nothing to do with hating an entire gender, IMO.
Again, I had an illiterate troll chase me around a board for six months calling me a racist cunt and I ignored every post. If you want to get under someone's skin, being oblivious to them is the best medicine. The said troll had a 4-alarm meltdown when I welched on a bet, which was nullified the moment I started ignoring it, and cried to the mods to change my ID against my will. One of them did that, another made them change it back. I went back for a while and then left permanently. As an aside, this board is great in that it seems pretty lenient and the mods don't appear to be power tripping assholes.