TuTu Monroe
A Realist
You'll have to forgive Mary. She is getting so contrary, but it's not her fault you see.
Again, his opinion is based on his experience, as the opinion of all people are, you tell him to deny his experience in place of the expectation to be treated better.
I'm sure you would be treated better in the USSR at the beginning if you constantly told Lenin how right he was, even if it was not your experience, but that doesn't change what Lenin was or did, it solely changed how you were treated.
If his experience shows something different than yours, match it with your own experience. We call that a conversation.
Instead you advised he ignore what he believes he has seen because he would be treated better because of it.
If you believed something to be true, regardless of how you are treated because of it, would you be brave enough to tell that truth to others, or would you just maintain how you are treated is the measure of "truth" and cave to their demands to be told what they want to hear?