It's a shame you have such a low opinion of your own gender. You really think men can't learn not to rape?
Don't forget, there is also male on male rape. You aren't immune. But I do hope it never happens to you; if it does, I promise we won't blame you for being drunk, in an alley, or wearing tight jeans...
I have a rather poor picture of humanity, not just men. IMO, we have to be trained to do the right thing. We may instinctively know what is correct, we may know from our culture and society what is correct. But at the end of the day, unless we are taught we will lack discipline. And, ah, being drunk in an alley is perhaps a great example of putting yourself in compromising positions. Russian roulette much?
ILA has been maklng posts about raping women here for about the last two weeks. Mostly to me, including posts saying that he hopes I get gang raped on the way home and so on. Some of it was pretty damn graphic. So he is either really fucking sick because he is making these threats and that isn't the way he feels, or he is really fucking sick because he is making those threats and that is the way he feels. Either way he is one perverted and twisted creep.
I think ILA wants you banned. His personal disdain for you is not my concern, frankly.
Let me ask you something about this woman that you woke up next to, did she force you to have sex with her and how exactly did that work? I have been on the receiving end of this shit and in each case the man begged me to come home with him. In each case. And in a couple of cases the poor stupid fools couldn't even perform once we got there and it was they who were embarrassed about it when they woke up in the morning. So I think you should probably tell this crap to your friends who don't know how this works, because I know.
the particular woman I'm thinking of was a friend of a friend. A wild child, prone to radical rash decisions. Back when I was doing the whole frat thing I would hang out with the theatre kids by week, and the frat by weekend. she, being a theatre kid, was rejected by me multiple times. She didn't meet my standards, and I told her that we were only friends. Well, one night we went to the city, to a club, the theater kids and I. I got drunk on 7 dollar beers and shots. she walked me back to my room, because I was drunk enough to think the lights across the way was my dorm. In my room she convinced me to shower and . . . I woke up. She manipulated a situation in which I was hardly fit to walk, let alone make moral judgments.
As far as you love life, I'm sorry your boys couldn't perform. Not all of us are blessed with vitality.
you seem to think you can close this losing argument of yours with some personal mumbo jumbo. As I said before, you didn't come to this site to debate, and you didn't come post this thread to debate either. You wanted a pat on the head for posting this crap, didn't you girl?
Could you elaborate on how the victim contributes to their rape. I guess some would say if a guy and gal were making out and the guy gets excited and when she not willing to go further and he rapes her, it was her fault for kissing him and getting him excited. BULLSHIT
Look doesnt matter if shes teasing you dressed overly sexxy only a sick mutt goes the distance and rapes. There is no excuse to take a woman that does not give you that right.
Real men dont rape women nor do they have to., only sick degenerates. The average guy wouldnt be able to perform if he was violently raping a woman and would never consider it no matter what the circumstances.
I didn't say the average would. But, I think the average guy, under the appropriate circumstances, would. a little social lubrication and a little pressure and most people crack.
When I speak of
women people contributing to their own rape I am speaking about more than just physically 'teasing'. They way they dress, their postures, looks, nonverbal gesturing. Everything you do elicits a response from somebody. But this isn't new. Many are content just to list grand things, like going to the party and drinking the alcohol; taking a drink from a stranger or letting a group of strangers lead you off somewhere with promises of candy, dressing like a harlot.
You can spout out all the morality you please,
But when you dress a certain way, you get certain attentions.
When you act a certain way, you attract certain attentions.
When you willingly throw caution into the wind and put your wellbeing into others hand's sometimes bad things happen.
Of course it doesn't excuse the crime. But if you didn't do everything you could to prevent it, or at least take reasonable precautions; obvious precautions, then you are part of the problem. What if instead of a terrifying night, it was an oil rig? What if safety precautions were left unmet, and a pipeline busted, spilling tons of oil into the ocean? What if? Would you not blame the one's responsible for the safety of that rig? Is that rig, your body, not worth protecting, or is 'having a fun, relaxing night' worth the risk?
I had to laugh at that, honestly. Lack of self-discipline gets him laid. How did he think that admission was helping his argument?
Right, and nobody ever lived a life they regretted, and then changed?
Could you elaborate on how the victim contributes to their rape. I guess some would say if a guy and gal were making out and the guy gets excited and when she not willing to go further and he rapes her, it was her fault for kissing him and getting him excited. BULLSHIT
Look doesnt matter if shes teasing you dressed overly sexxy only a sick mutt goes the distance and rapes. There is no excuse to take a woman that does not give you that right.
Real men dont rape women nor do they have to., only sick degenerates. The average guy wouldnt be able to perform if he was violently raping a woman and would never consider it no matter what the circumstances.
I didn't say the average would. But, I think the average guy, under the appropriate circumstances, would. a little social lubrication and a little pressure and most people crack.
When I speak of
women people contributing to their own rape I am speaking about more than just physically 'teasing'. They way they dress, their postures, looks, nonverbal gesturing. Everything you do elicits a response from somebody. But this isn't new. Many are content just to list grand things, like going to the party and drinking the alcohol; taking a drink from a stranger or letting a group of strangers lead you off somewhere with promises of candy, dressing like a harlot.
You can spout out all the morality you please,
But when you dress a certain way, you get certain attentions.
When you act a certain way, you attract certain attentions.
When you willingly throw caution into the wind and put your wellbeing into others hand's sometimes bad things happen.
Of course it doesn't excuse the crime. But if you didn't do everything you could to prevent it, or at least take reasonable precautions; obvious precautions, then you are part of the problem. What if instead of a terrifying night, it was an oil rig? What if safety precautions were left unmet, and a pipeline busted, spilling tons of oil into the ocean? What if? Would you not blame the one's responsible for the safety of that rig? Is that rig, your body, not worth protecting, or is 'having a fun, relaxing night' worth the risk?
I had to laugh at that, honestly. Lack of self-discipline gets him laid. How did he think that admission was helping his argument?
Right, and nobody ever lived a life they regretted, and then changed?
