Let me tell you a little story, Cawacko. This is just one story, about what one of your fellow americans goes through in life:
I knew a gal who was a retail florist. It was a skilled job. She was a good florist. She made about ten dollars an hour.
She had two kids. She was divorced. Dead beat dad. She had to use almost her whole salary for day care, rent, and food. She couldn't even afford to buy clothes from anywhere, except salvation army. She couldn't even afford to buy new DVDs or videos for her kids. She had to buy old, hand-me-down copies of Disney's Lion King, or Alladin. Her company didn't offer health care. Typical for the retail florist industry.
She didn't have any paid time off, or paid vacations. Again, typical for the retail florist industry.
When, her kids got sick, she had to miss work, and lose wages. When she had to take her kids to an appointment, she had to lose wages. She could never take a week off and take her kids to Disneyworld, because it wasn't financially feasible. She would lose a week in wages.
Those kinds of things almost make me cry, Cawacko. That is not family values.
And if any man told her to just "shut up, it's your fault! You could just get another job...or MOVE!", I would probably punch that dude in the face.