DamnYankee
Loyal to the end
The tradition of 13 or 14 year old girls marrying was based on the short life span of people. She needed to get married, then get pregnant to ensure the survival of the species. Since life spans have gotten longer and teenagers take longer to mature in our increasing complex society the appropriate age to marry has been increased to 18, which I of course support.you weren't clear...do you support this tradition or not?
what i think you're saying is, you're ok with the US getting rid of that tradition, but not getting rid of the so called prohibition or definition that only a man and woman can marry.....if so, that is an intellectually dishonest stance, as you allow one long tradition to change, but not another
Queer marriage, in contrast, does nothing to ensure survival of the species, and is unrelated to your issue.