Your definition of homosexuality is one of behavior which certainly makes all of it a choice.
My definition is physiological/neurological which is "born that way" / "not a choice."
If you look at it from the perspective of those things that are not choices, e.g. a man who falls in love with men (not a choice) and who finds women sexually repulsive (not a choice), the elephant in the room is the question of how such things that are not choices are somehow choices.
There is no question that acting on those non-choices is a choice ... but what about the direct question of the non-choices?
The difference between alcoholism and homosexuality is nil. Both are acquired behaviors. Both are subject to movement into that behavior by genes. There really is no difference. Some people are prone to alcohol, others are not. Some people are prone to homosexuality, others are not.
You actually made the correct point here. It is the choice to act on that weakness. It is choice. We are free to choose. We are not free of the consequences of that choice.
Agreed, however this differs from homosexuality in that no one starts off desiring the alcohol; they simply become rapidly dependent upon it.
No. Alcoholics are prone to the desire of alcohol. This is gene based. Homosexuals are prone to the desire of the same gender. This is also gene based. There is no difference at all.
Whether one becomes an alcoholic is a choice...even with the weakness present. Whether one becomes a homosexual is again a choice...even with the weakness present. There is no difference at all.
Homosexuals start off being attracted to and falling in love with the same gender once they reach a certain age, again without any choice involved.
No. It is a choice. The weakness towards it is gene based. The decision to go there is a choice.
In heterosexuals it's with the opposite sex upon reaching a certain age, no choice involved.
No. It is a choice. The general tendency to mate with one of the opposite sex is a strong one, true, but it is again a choice. Marriage is a choice. A sex act of any kind is a choice.
Peace n Safety didn't want to answer my question. Why does "Adam's Sin" result in different random "punishments" for each individual? Is there anything in the Bible that touches on that? Some people are weak in one way, others have different weaknesses, some live a long time, some receive very little time on this earth, etc...
He is operating from a point of ignorance. He is unable to answer this question for you.
But I can.
As you know, we are all different. We have things that we share together, such that we are all human, we are all children of God (assuming one of many faiths...I will use Christianity here), we all have our strengths, and we all have our weaknesses, just as we all look a little different from each other.
Adam's sin does not result in different random 'punishments' for each individual. it only resulted in bringing death into the world, and the world being what it is today...outside the Garden of Eden, and outside the presence of God.
The sacrifice by Jesus Christ is also a sacrifice by God, since Jesus Christ is also the son of God, and Christ lived a perfect life. He was also part of the godhead. That sacrifice paid our price for Adam's transgression...like someone coming to pay the loan we could no longer pay, no matter what we did. Thus, justice was satisfied. The debt has been paid. Thus, through Christ, all men will be resurrected, and be able to return to the presence of God. Effectively, we will be able to enter Eden once again.
Why the variance? God knows each and every one of us. We are his children. He knows what we can be, and he knows what things we must be tested upon. There is also random variance, just like the weather. It is an imperfect world.
Adam brought about this imperfect world, but he did not cause the variance or change any decision of God. A savior for the world was planned from the beginning. Adam not only introduced death into the world, but life also. The difference, you might say, between being a child and an adult.
We each suffer pain. We each suffer loneliness. We each suffer corruption and death. There are different ways in which this comes about, we all suffer these things.
What we suffer can be through God's will, through our own choices, and sometimes even the choices of others (to become a dictator, for example).
You really have to look at it from the point of view of eternity. What does it matter if one happens to be born blind, another prone to alcoholism, another contract a case of leprosy, another lose everything they own in a storm?
All of these things shall pass away. The blind child will develop a special sense of hearing, touch, etc. that compensates for poor to no eyesight. The best piano tuner I know is completely blind. He has excellent hearing. He can identify someone walking into a carpeted room and talk to them by name, simply by the sound of their walk. Those who see normally do not have this sense of acuity in their hearing. Some can't even hear the car approaching them from behind before it's too late. Their eyesight is focused on a tiny one inch screen.
Even in sin, we can learn from it. It can be a teaching moment. It can also be a prison if we let it. We can use the sins of others as teaching moments as well. They may suffer the consequences of their choice, but we don't have to.
The leprosy case learns things others that do not contract this horrible disease learn. Fortunately today, leprosy is now completely treatable. No more leper colonies and the isolation they brought! The presence of leprosy in the world taught people how to beat it, not just cope with it.
A fellow I know contracted polio as a young child and lost the use of both legs. He was a strong individual however and that didn't stop him or even slow him down. He successfully started and ran one business after another. I used to work for him. When he went to catch a plane at the airport, he didn't like to waste time to board the plane. He would arrive right on time to board at the last minute. Anyone not paying attention to those crutches coming down the airport concourse soon learned their mistake! He was faster than normal people walking on their own legs! His arms developed into huge muscles...like legs for arms. He never bothered with a wheelchair.
People with handicaps, no matter what they are, generally don't want pity. They don't want special allowances made for them. They are actually proud to overcome their handicap on their own. It's their challenge in life.
Is having a predisposition towards alcohol or homosexuality any different?
No. It is just another handicap to bear. The only difference with homosexuality, is that it has become a political topic, and many of them want to whine over it to gain advantage over others. That again, is by their choice.