I admit it's an open philosophical question, but choice and free will seem self evident to me. And absent any compelling proof or evidence, I am going to trust my senses over mental masturbation.Agreed on the agnostic position regarding "self" as "soul" and also on the normal human ability to have a concept of self and make decisions for themselves, as best they can, using reasoning.
OTOH, I understand why the mentally ill and the low IQ are unable to function in this manner. They often seek to blame others for their own actions. People who refuse to take responsibility for themselves seem to fall can fall into several categories. See examples below.
The bottom line is that, as this thread has demonstrated for weeks now, some people believe they are not responsible for their own thoughts and actions while some people do. I side with those who accept responsibility for my own life.
1. Low self-esteem. They know they are responsible but fear admitting it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...001/when-someone-won-t-own-their-bad-behavior
2. People who don't believe they can change. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_some_people_own_mistakes_and_others_dont
3. Mental health. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-control/201912/mental-health-and-control
One possibility is that if our conciousness is a projection of some quantum state, the many worlds quantum hypothesis states that when an observation is made, perhaps when a decision is made, all possible realities occur and branch off from each other.
There was even an episode it on Star Trek, where Worf was shifting through different quantum worlds!