ExpressLane
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I just saw a picture of her father and he was obese. So that is two MAJOR risk factors her 65 year old father had.
Hello T. A. Gardner,
That is an absurd dehumanization of the opposing side, completely lacking in any fact or supporting link.
It was foolish to go do karaoke in a deadly pandemic which is airborne transmitted. Yeah, grab the mic that some other person just had up to their mouth and put it up to your own mouth? What could possibly go wrong? How about you get their germs and they might be deadly. An evening of karaoke is not worth a life.
Nobody needs to make a choice between a fun life and one of misery, based on foolish risk-taking. This is no black and white decision. There is plenty of fun to be had in life without taking stupid risks. Every proposed activity carries associated risk. The wise person will consider the trade-off and learn to maximize fun while minimizing risk.
Reminds me of a personal anecdote:
Even though I am a liberal, I was involved in a somewhat dangerous sport. I loved it and did my best to minimize the risk. And there were so many great people involved. I loved the events, seeing all the people, many also came to all the events. Great gatherings of fun-loving people.
I remember there was a beautiful woman I wanted to date one time. Really nice, and very nice to talk to. Not stuck up, like so many. But she was attracted to this other guy and kindly rejected my offer. No big. You win some, you lose a lot, I figured. Time passed. I saw her again maybe a year later. She was despondent. Her other guy was a skydiver. He had an accident and died. Chute didn't open. He had a whole life ahead of him but it was cut short. I consoled her as a friend might. I did not ask her out. She was mourning, not a good time. This other guy saw me talking to her and noticed how gorgeous she was, asked about her. He really liked her beauty, said she was 'to-die-for-gorgeous.' I said: "You have no idea how right you are."
This is the pragmatic but missing out person. One person's fun may require taking risks. If it's what you love to do, then you take them. If you pass on that, you miss out.There is plenty of fun to be had in life without taking stupid risks. Every proposed activity carries associated risk. The wise person will consider the trade-off and learn to maximize fun while minimizing risk.
No it's not. It's an accurate assessment. If you read the article her father was a very outgoing and fun loving man who very much enjoyed his life. He caught a disease and died from it. Doesn't matter what that disease was. He had a full and joy filled life. His daughter lived in San Francisco, over a thousand miles away. She gets bent that he died from COVID and blames Trump and Arizona's governor Dug Ducey for this.
It isn't their faults. He wanted to continue to enjoy his life doing what he loved. He did. She just can't accept that and is now acting selfishly.
Same thing with your story. Anyone who skydives knows there are risks. They accept that and do what they love. Better he lived a short life doing what he loved than a long one being miserable and safe but missing out on that.
As to This is the pragmatic but missing out person. One person's fun may require taking risks. If it's what you love to do, then you take them. If you pass on that, you miss out.
In the case at hand, her father was 65. He had a full life and did what he loved to the end. She should be proud and happy of that not complaining that others--who had nothing to do with his death--are somehow responsible for it and that she wants her father alive even if that meant he would be miserable.
It's a shame the cult of the Christian Right bought into this Con Man, but they are good at doing that. All the richest TV evangelicals have been soaking them for years and living lavish lifestyles.
Remember Jim Baker.
Actually, he is out of prison and back to his old shtick.
Now selling survivalist gear.
Yep.......... Same game.....
I guess he plans to survive Armageddon in his bunker full of cash..........
Hello Bill,
What a great point. Maybe he can pay mad max to restock his freeze dried beef stroganoff after all that runs out. Or perhaps shred it and use it for a salad?
Better he lived a short life doing what he loved than a long one being miserable and safe but missing out on that.
Now you understand how we feel about the conservative outrage "du jour".