ZenMode
Well-known member
You don't choose who you are attracted to, but you do choose what you do about it. Example: being attracted to the boss's wife is one thing, trying to seduce her is a conscious action. People like Mode who can't control their impulses would try to do it anyway.
I never said you can't control your impulses. I do say that the degree to which you control your impulses, which is to say "actions", is determined by your thoughts (and maybe a genetic component), which you don't control.