Yeah, and some of them had no chance to go to college, were raised by drug addicts, parents who beat them every night, had to go to work right out of high school, or drop out and go to work to feed themselves, didn’t even know how to apply for a loan to go to college…you think you didn’t have advantages, you’re wrong. Your skin color and gender are advantages right off. If your father didn’t abandon you, that’s another advantage. If they didn’t beat you, that’s another advantage. If your parents took an interest in your homework and your school grades, that’s another advantage. If you weren’t sexually abused by your uncle that’s another advantage. If your mother and father, or mother or father, weren’t living in absolute poverty, you grew up viewing living above poverty as the norm. As attainable, for you…that’s another advantage. If your mother wasn’t a crack whore, that’s another advantage. If your father wasn’t an alcoholic, that’s another advantage. If your parents were the kind who helped you fill out college apps, that’s another advantage. If your parents told you from when you were young, that a college education was important, that’s another advantage.
There’s a million more. Few have all of them, but most on this board had enough of them.
My father lived in the projects with his alcoholic ww2vet dad who beat him daily. Does that count? he went on to get a Masters in engineering.
So sure I didn't have a shit childhood besides being in a cancer ward for a few years, but for every single person with the situations above you talk about there are 100+ kids who didn't deal with anything horrible as children and are just plain lazy as i explained.
I just don't buy the argument.