In the past I'm mentioned the military tactic of "probing fire" AKA "reconnaissance by fire": A scout shoots from a safe distance from his own people the enemy lines and immediately takes cover. Those on the scout's lines note the positions of returning fire. This is done several times, preferably with the scout moving to different, previously noted positions for their own safety and, perhaps to draw fire from different enemy positions.
Another technique is transmission imaging or penetration imaging. The hypothetical that I remember is placing a metal object inside a tent, such as an anvil, then shooting a lot of random holes in the tent. Going over to the other side of the tent would reveal a shape where the bullets didn't penetrate. X-ray shooting radiation through a body to a film plate on the other side is a common practical example.
In psychology, asking a person various questions to see which ones they like to answer and which ones they do not is part of Avoidance Behavior.
When questions consistently result in anger over a specific area when the person is otherwise calm, cool and collected, that is an indication of unresolved trauma.
Putting all of this together is why I know
@domer76 has some sort of unresolved trauma regarding Christianity. The #1 reason from Google AI indicates "sexual orientation".
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Avoidance Behavior: Examples, Impacts, & How to Overcome
Avoidance behaviors are any actions people use to escape or distract themselves from distressing thoughts, feelings, and situations. These can look like avoiding new job opportunities, career advancements, relationships, social situations, recreational activities, and family get-togethers. People use avoidance as a coping mechanism for pain, trauma, and other mental health issues.
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Q; what are the top reasons Christian families kick kids out of the home?
Google AI A: Christian families may expel children from the home due to
perceived violations of deeply held religious beliefs and practices, and/or for
behavioral issues that endanger the family or constitute a refusal to accept adult responsibilities.
Disagreements Over Religious and Social Issues
A primary category of reasons relates to fundamental disagreements over lifestyle and identity issues, which some parents view as direct violations of their faith. These include:
- Sexual orientation or gender identity: This is a frequently cited reason, with some parents believing that by housing an LGBTQ+ child, they are condoning or becoming accomplices to "sin".
- Sexual activity outside of marriage: Premarital sex is often a point of severe contention....
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Perceptions of "Tough Love" or Enabling
Some parents, motivated by the belief that a child must face the consequences of their actions to find God or learn responsibility, may implement a "tough love" approach by expelling an adult child who is capable but unwilling to work or pursue an education. This is often framed as a way to prevent enabling irresponsible behavior.
It is important to note that many Christian perspectives do not advocate for disowning or kicking out children, emphasizing love, forgiveness, and ongoing support regardless of the child's choices. The decision to expel a child is often tied to specific, sometimes rigid, interpretations of faith and community standing.