Again, this is a right that should be afforded to the individual rather than the state. Even Amendment 10 recognizes that some things should not be mucked around in by the government. This is one of them. So long as nobody is being abused by age, by fraud, or by force there is no reason the government needs to define what relationships any adult decides to enter into. It's sickening that we cheer on this level of control over an individual right simply because we think we can keep others from exercising it in a way we think is "icky" or because it is defined as "sin" by whatever religion we choose to follow. Neither one is an excuse to allow the government into our personal freedoms.First of all it's a State thing and States have the power to do a lot of things that you may not agree with. For instance North Carolina's Constitution boldly states that we are a Christian government as justification for helping the poor.
So I don't give a damn if Massachusetts or Vermont or California legalizes gay marriage, since I never plan to live there, and these states will suffer the consequences of reduced population.
That being said I don't see the citizens of Texas standing pat on this decision by an errant judge. Texans will speak up and amend their Constitution to reverse the damage that this one judge did.
I don't care whether you think it is a "right" of the state to define other's or your relationship because they define away the "icky" in most cases or whether you care whether Massachusetts defines it some other way than your state as long as your ick factor isn't changed, this is a right that should not be in the hands of the government. Period. We define ourselves as free then cheer on the simplest of decisions made for us by the government.